Monday, December 1, 2025

If there's someone up there listening... how about another 3 day pass?

Last week (Tuesday, Nov 18 to be specific) I awoke feeling well.  I was surprised when I climbed out of bed, looked into the bathroom mirror and my eyes didn't have those post-covid black sockets under them.  

I kept my fingers crossed, I was scheduled to get CT scans later that day and it would make things so much better if I could ride the two buses to UPMC without being in too much discomfort.

I continued feeling good that day, even when my neurologist showed me two 'clouds' still in the frontal lobe region from my long covid.

Who cares about clouds, maybe this relapse on September 12 was finally settling down for good.

The next day the good times continued.  I called my barber and asked if she had any openings, it had been several weeks since my last haircut.  She did, and I got a great cut.  The third day, I was still doing great.  I knew I had to take advantage of this, so I showered and dressed first thing, and went downtown to renew my expired driver's license.  This had been weeks overdue.

I awoke Friday morning with some mild burning in my temples, and a very sore neck.  Maybe I slept on it funny and it will fade...  but as the day wore on, the pressure in my head increased, as did the pain in the lower right jawline and mouth.  That damn long covid was fighting it's way back.

By Friday night, the last 3 days seemed like a dream.  At least I made good use of them.

This isn't the first time I got one of those passes.  When all of this began in January 2024 (I am coming up on my 2 year anniversary with this) I was housebound and miserable for 4 months.  Then in May 2024 I got a 3-4 day reprieve, and was able to visit the senior center a couple times and attend a lunch with friends at Red Lobster.  I was happy as a clam, pun intended.

It didn't last, the summer of 2024 was the worst.  I didn't leave my place again for 3 months.  But I got another "weekly pass" in the Fall, and then again in early December.  I was able to attend the Holiday luncheon for Senior Singles at the church next door.   

I got a couple more "3 day passes" in February and April, and by May 2025 things had improved enough that I was venturing out again.  I was still fighting extreme fatigue, go out for 2-3 hours, come home and sleep for 3-4, but the head and facial pain was 90% gone.  Aside from getting plantar fasciitis in August, I really believed the "covid head" stuff was nearly gone for good.

Then of course, on September 12 everything came back.  I haven't been to the senior center since.  

Anyway, it would've been nice to get a 3 day pass this week so I could spend Thanksgiving with loved ones, but I didn't luck out.  I'm hoping I get a pass next week so I can attend this years Senior Singles Holiday Lunch with my gals Mary and Evie.  I really miss them.

Finally, here's one thing with a happy ending:  a few days ago, I was making a cup of coffee and it tasted like burnt plastic.  I tried another k-cup, same result.  I ran a cup of white vinegar thru my Keurig and activated the deep cleanse.  No change.

My K-Supreme was a month or so past its warranty, so I'd have to purchase another one.  This was my third K-Supreme in 5 years!  

But feeling face-sore and cranky, I called Customer Service anyway.  I got a very polite Indian woman named Sky.  I told her what happened, she said "Okay sir, here is what we're going to do.  First I want you to try a different brand k-cup..."   I told her no, I did that already.  She said "Perfect.  Okay, now we're going to operate your machine in clean mode.  Do you have any white vinegar?"

I said "Sky, I did all that this morning.  I'm not wasting anymore time or k-cups on this faulty machine.  And I know it's a month past the warranty, so I'm not expecting you to replace it.  I just wanted someone to know how disappointed I am.  I've been a loyal customer of Keurig for years, but this is ridiculous."

Sky said she was very sorry for the inconvenience, I said thanks for listening.  Fifteen minutes later, she called back and asked for the serial number on my Keurig.  After giving it to her, Sky said they were sending me a new machine, no charge.  I was very surprised, thanked her and asked if I needed to send the bad one back.  She said no, just discard it.

It arrived a couple days ago and boy, my coffee tastes great again.  I hope this one can stick around for awhile.

Thursday, November 27, 2025

Older men who live alone and don't exactly cook want Thanksgiving dinner too

Before...

Ready to eat; I was almost surprised how tasty everything was

This turned out better than expected, I really enjoyed that turkey & stuffing.  I was going to watch tv while eating, but there were big swirls of snow flurries outside my dining room window, so I enjoyed that instead.

Later on with my dessert (I'm not a fan of pumpkin pie)  I did enjoy an awesome movie--the 1993 tv movie A Walton Thanksgiving Reunion on DVD.   Happy Thanksgiving, everybody.  

Monday, November 24, 2025

What's better than a great foreign film? When it's free to watch too


Back in 1999 when I was working at BNY Mellon, I was browsing the "World Wide Web" one day (during my lunch hour, of course) and came across a website that said "Why go to the video store to rent movies when you can do it from home?"  and boasted they had over 500 movies on DVD.  It was Netflix of course, and the idea of a movie arriving in a postage paid envelope (to watch and ship back) sounded pretty clever to me.

When I showed it to my coworker Mike, he said "Sounds like a gimmick, just go to Blockbuster!"  But I was intrigued as I looked at their catalog and saw many were foreign films--most of which I'd never heard of, let alone seen for rent anywhere.   

So I signed up, and the very first dvd I got in the mail was Run Lola Run, a 1998 German thriller that blew my socks off.  It was brilliant, never saw anything like it before.

Eventually I began renting Hollywood movies in the mail too as Netflix grew, but I always looked for foreign (subtitled) releases first. 

Anyway, the other night I was on Tubi (a free streaming service) and was surprised to see several foreign films I once enjoyed greatly and gave my highest "A" grades to.  I thought I'd share a few of my reviews here.  

These are all available to watch for free on Tubi.

The Cakemaker (2018)  Thomas, a baker in Berlin is in love with Oren, a businessman from Jerusalem who visits once a month.  But when Oren goes missing, Thomas will travel there—and learn Oren died in a car crash, leaving behind a wife & son.  Not revealing who he is, Thomas will ask Oren’s wife for a job in her kosher cafe—why?  A wary family will soon warm to him in this gentle wonder of how we love & grieve. (German-Hebrew-English)  My grade: A Plus

Becoming Astrid (2018)  Red haired and feisty, she grew up in the 1900s on a farm in the Swedish countryside.  Her writings will land her a job with the local paper at the age of 16, but life will soon take a dramatic turn.  A single mom now, she’ll spin tales to her little boy, and someday to all children when she creates Pippi Longstocking.  It’s a brief glimpse at Astrid Lindgren’s life, but beautifully told.  It just couldn’t be more special. (Swedish) My grade: A Plus

The Broken Circle Breakdown (2012)  Dieder is a kind hearted Belgian who loves American Bluegrass music.  Elise is the woman he falls for, devout in her Christianity as he is in atheiesm.  And now as their 6 year old daughter Maybelle lies dying of cancer in a hospital, their beliefs (or lack of) are scrutinized by the other, leaving us trembling in their wake.  Extraordinary. (Belgian)  My grade: A Plus




I’m Your Man (2021) Desperate for funds, Alma agrees to allow Tom, a male robot to live with her for his final testing.  His sole purpose is to provide love and happiness.  Barely containing her revulsion, she’ll spurn his efforts, leaving him confused about his life's purpose.  Will Alma come around?  Will Tom?  I am misty-eyed, what a smart, dear & thought-provoking story.  Perfect casting makes this a winner.  (German)  My grade: A


The Nun (2013) In 1760 France, Suzanne is forced to enter a convent when her mother reveals she was the product of an illicit affair. Suzanne yearns to be a free woman, but loves her Mother Superior; until she dies and Suzanne learns the religious life forced on her is the least of her problems.  Exquisite to watch, she wears her sorrow well, like a young Ingrid Bergman. (French) My grade: A
The Silence (2010)   A 13 year old girl is missing, and her bike is found in the same spot in the countryside where a young girl disappeared 23 years before. Why? The answers are there in this masterfully told story that almost thrums like a high tension wire.  Still, this is a story of awful crime, and anguish.  Steel yourself. (German) My grade: A

A Royal Affair (2012)  In 1766, Princess Caroline of Britain is betrothed to the young, insane King of Denmark; despondent, she bonds with the King's personal physician (Mads Mikkelsen) and adopts his ideas for reform and change. Is Denmark ready for such revolutionary ideas? Yes and no, in this tragic yet royal retelling of it's darkest days. Hope springs eternal. (Danish) My grade: A
Teddy Bear (2012)  Dennis is a bodybuilder--and a gentle giant, with a heart as big as his biceps. But he's a painfully shy man, and lorded over by his mother. So when his uncle tells him of the lovely women in Thailand, Dennis decides he'll go and find one for his own. With a hint of exotic flavor, this was touching and kind and what else is love about anyway? (Danish) My grade: A



I almost forgot to mention--Run Lola Run can be seen for free on the Roku Channel.  You won't be sorry. 😊