Thursday, August 28, 2025

A sleepy Doug & The not-so-curious case of the Compulsive Master..nater

Good morning!  This was me Thursday morning, August 28 at 7am; I was just getting ready to run out that door to catch the bus downtown for my jury duty.

When my alarm clock went off at 6:15, I literally jumped up in shock. I set it “just in case”, never expecting it would rouse me from a deep slumber.

(But I was up for over an hour in the middle of the night with aching legs, so I was excused.)

I was worried about my recent leg & feet issues, but at the same time I was excited to be catching the 7:05 19L again.  That was my bus to work for many, many years.  It’s been years since I last rode it.

I was dismayed when we got downtown though; everyone was getting off at Liberty Avenue.  I asked the bus driver if she was still going to Mellon One (right across from the Allegheny courthouse) and she said “Sir, this bus hasn’t done that route in years.  Where have you been?”  

Anyway, there’s not a lot to tell.  There were 63 prospective jurors, we were there for the case of Nate F, a fortysomething man with one of the best comb-overs I’d ever seen.  Apparently Nate had a habit of public lewdness which included acts of masturbation.

Oh Nate, you look like a nice man in your nice suit and everything.  Why?

They selected 25 prospective jurors for his trial, and I was picked as No.11.  We were told we’d be questioned by both attorneys.  When it was my turn, they asked me if I’d ever been a juror before.  I said yes.  They asked if I remembered when.  I said yes, March 2010.

They asked me if I remembered the particulars of that case.  I said “Yes, I remember the judge, the state’s attorney, the defendant, the defendant’s lawyer, what the judge told the defendant when he admonished him after the not guilty verdict.”

The defense attorney said “I’m loving this—how?”  I said “Er… I have an online blog.  I wrote a blog about the experience after the trial.”   They seemed to get a big kick out of that.  They asked me if I had a problem with society’s view on public lewdness (no) and would I object to being shown recorded video evidence of these acts.  

Oh I don’t have a problem with that at all!  Let’s see what you got. 

Unfortunately, I wasn’t chosen.  Halfway thru questioning the jurors, they took a break for lunch.  There was only 4 or 5 of us that brought our lunch, I wish I’d taken a photo of mine. 

(A roast turkey and smoked guoda sandwich with red onions, and a Tupperware container of steamed broccoli & baby carrots—you would’ve been proud.)

An older woman (Carol) asked if she could join me as she’d brought hers too, and while we ate one of the women who coordinate everything told us “Letting you know, you weren’t chosen and will be going back into the jury pool after lunch.  The attorneys liked both of you, but worried your medical issues could be a distraction.”

We still had to stay until 4:30 (in case another case rolled in).  I was glad for the experience, it got me out of the house for the whole day.  But I was never so glad to be back home again.

Sunday, August 24, 2025

Hot legs, and not the good kind… any medical advice?

This is going to be a weird blog.  For the last 10 days or so, I’ve been dealing with foot pain.  The pain isn’t as bad as it was a week ago, but I think it’s because I’ve stopped walking so much.  

But my toes on both feet and my soles always seem to be very hot.

And now, the last three nights, I’ve awoken around 5:30am with burning legs from the knees down.  It usually takes them a couple hours to die down.  My friend Evie at the senior center says it’s neuropathy, welcome to old age.

I was just wondering if I have athlete’s foot and not be aware of it?  I bought anti-fungal cream 3 days ago and been using it twice daily—but now with the burning legs, I don’t know. 

Here’s some unflattering photos of my feet (and legs) taken last night around 10:30pm.

FYI, the last photo is my compression socks.  I had pretty swollen ankles earlier this week, and have been wearing compression socks for 5-6 hours every day. 

Do these feet look fungal to you?  I’m open to suggestions, thanks everyone.

 
 

Wednesday, August 20, 2025

Amazing but true: A look at my expenses 4 years ago and today

A few years back, a friend told me my ‘numbers blogs’ were boring.  She was right, but I couldn’t help it; I love numbers. 

I found this table of my monthly expenses from a blog I’d written in July 2021 and thought I’d update it to show my monthly expenses now and what a difference 4 years can make. 

I was more than surprised, I was amazed. 

MONTHLY EXPENSE JUL 2021 AUG 2025
RENT 790.00 880.00
XFINITY TV/PHONE/INTERNET 234.00 80.00
HEALTH INSURANCE 145.00 55.00
GROCERIES 240.00 320.00
UTILITIES - ELECTRIC 45.00 55.00
KEURIG COFFEE SUBSCRIPTION 40.00 45.00
BARBERSHOP 20.00 25.00
RENTERS INSURANCE 10.00 10.00
DENTAL INSURANCE 15.00 0
AMBULANCE INSURANCE 8.00 8.00
PRESCRIPTIONS 15.00 0
STREAMING SERVICES 20.00 35.00
CELLPHONE (T-MOBILE, MINT) 65.00 20.00
DINING OUT 50.00 75.00
STORE SHOPPING 150.00 200.00
ONLINE SHOPPING 225.00 250.00
LUNCHES AT SENIOR CENTER 0 25.00

 

JULY 2021 MONTHLY TOTAL:  $2082.00

AUG 2025  MONTHLY TOTAL:  $2082.00

They came out to the same monthly total!  That was the last thing I expected.  I should add that while my monthly totals look low, I wind up spending 4-5K more in the year.

High priced items like a new phone or tablet, donations to my favorite charities over the holidays, medical & dental bills.  But still, the “minimum spending” list above… strange how the total dollar amount remained the same. 

But like I said, there’s always other expenses.  I’m meeting with an oral surgeon today at 1:30 to discuss a bone graft and implant bridge that will run $7500.00 or more. 

And a year from now, my monthly health insurance is going to QUADRUPLE when I’m kicked off Pennie (the ACA Health Exchange in Pennsylvania) and forced go on Medicare.

It sucks getting old but it beats the alternative!