What is this? Three conversations that went in directions I didn’t expect, which gives me something to blog about I suppose. Of course I’m shaking my head in disbelief at the fires in California and Frump’s latest shenanigans, but meanwhile, here at least, life goes on.
A couple weeks ago I was talking to my sister, and remarked as soon as I had this long covid under control (still having relapses) I needed to go to the dentist—specifically, a dental surgeon and get molar implants.
I am missing all my molars in my lower left quadrant—the last one (a stump) broke off and my dentist said could not be built up or support a partial denture. I was told a dental implant bridge will cost $15,000 and that is not including the bone graft surgery I’ll require beforehand.
My sister said “Well, my coworker needs $50,000 worth of dental work.” Did that make mine not as bad compared to his? I guess so, but I’m still anxious and afraid to get this started. I wrestle with TMJ a lot, and people have shared some scary stories about their implants on Reddit.
Last week I got a letter from Steiner Realty (my landlord). They were apologetic, said the cost of everything is out of control and they hope I remain a tenant--but effective April 1, my rent will be $880.00 per month. That’s a $40.00 increase.
I’m used to my rent going up $20.00 a month every year, but this is double that!
When I told my friend Diana, she said “That’s nothing. My son and his wife pay twice that for their place!” She’s right, twice mine is a lot! But they live in beautiful Salt Lake City Utah and have jobs and I don’t. My rent is still high where I live and I worry this $40 increase will be the new norm come next year.
This past Friday I went to the store for some milk & eggs, saw they had Spicy Pineapple Ham on special—that is good stuff. I could just picture it on some King’s Hawaiian rolls. After I got both and was checking out, it occurred to me some Ruffles Cheddar & Sour Cream potato chips would go perfectly with these spicy ham sliders. I don’t know why I even thought of chips, it’s probably been 2 years since I last bought a bag.
I asked the cashier if I could run back and get some, she said sure. I run over, grab a bag, Carol rings them up—$5.99. What! It’s not even a big bag, and they cost $5.99? Did I just crawl out from under some rock?
Before we moved to the farmhouse in 1970 and still lived in town, my mom often sent me up the street to Howard’s Market for items like milk, lunchmeat, cigarettes.
If we were having a cookout, Mom would tell me to grab a bag of DiMarco Potato Chips, produced in nearby Uniontown Pa.
They were 49 cents for a large bag. Yes yes I know—that was over 50 years ago but still.
Back in the present, I said to Carol—“When did potato chips become a luxury item? $5.99 for a bag of chips, how can people afford to eat these?”Carol said “Consider yourself lucky you’re not buying cigarettes. Mine cost $13 for one pack.”
I said “Yes that’s awful, but you don’t NEED to smoke. I DO need to eat, there’s a difference.”
Carol snapped “You don’t NEED to eat chips. Go grab a can of beans!” I laughed and said okay, I’ll shut up. I said I was sure she’s heard plenty already about the steep price of these chips.
She said “I hear it every day about meat and cereal and other things, but not about potato chips!” OKAY CAROL.
I wanted to crawl back under that rock I must’ve recently crawled out from. By the way, the ham sliders were delicious but those Ruffles potato chips really hurt my gums.
My rent increased by $70/month. I don't eat potato chips, but if I did, I guess I would need to stop soon at that price. Your sandwich looks great!
ReplyDeleteThank you DJan, wow $70 increase! I am sorry to hear that. That's not a sandwich pic though, it's supposed to be the large rock I crawled out from under. EDIT: I replaced it with a boulder, thanks for the heads up. :^)
DeleteOkay, Dug, I'm going to give you a pass on this column since I gather you don't go buy groceries very often. Just be glad the store had all of the products you wanted to purchase.
ReplyDeleteSince the pandemic (actually it started during the pandemic) I am just grateful for the products I can find on the shelves. So much is just not there, and the prices do not matter as people are buying as fast as the stores can restock. It's called supply and demand.
As for your rent--$40 increase is really minimal. Here people are seeing increases in the hundreds. And, just like the groceries, demand for housing is "through the roof."
dkzody, I'm at the market 2-3 times a week! And my store has plenty of everything I want or need--I just don't buy a lot of potato chips. As for my rent, I think it depends a lot on your geography. You live in a very expensive part of the country, I don't.
DeleteDug, I had to go back and look when DJan said the sandwich looked great. (I didn't see a sandwich... how did I miss that?) And prices ARE getting ridiculous...(as I buy Gluten free... and you get maybe 6 cookies for $8). Our weekly grocery bill is $300 and we don't eat much meat. Used to be $150, but it's doubled. Our utilities (electricity, water, and gas) are about $1000 - these increased after the Texas artic freeze of 2001. Our 26 year old grandson lives with us... and although he makes a decent salary, can't afford his own place. We love having him here, but don't know how people can continue like this. Sorry about your rent increase, but not at all surprised.
ReplyDeleteRian, thanks very much--I always appreciate what you share. Reading what you're currently paying for things scared me. But I know exactly what you mean, in the last 2 years my weekly grocery bill has doubled too. Doubled. I am so sorry abut your grandson, but I'm very glad he has you guys. I honestly don't know how a lot of young people today are even doing it. PS DJan's comment left me scratching my head too, untl I realized the FIRST picture of a rock at the bottom of my blog (that I crawled out from under) was very flat, and did indeed look like a sandwich. So I replaced it. :^)
DeleteThose chips cost $7.29 here in Texas.
ReplyDeleteGood grief! Unreal!
DeleteI enjoy a bag of potato chips every once in awhile too, and the prices are beyond ridiculous (plus they've reduced size of the package). Don't pick up chips at a gas station - in Canada they are between $7-8 a bag! I've gone to store brand potato chips for my fix, they're at least $2 less.
ReplyDeleteYikes, your dental work sounds painful, both literally and figuratively. Good luck with that.
As for the rent, I'm not surprised to see the increase, but no matter the amount, it hurts the pocketbook. No more potato chips for you. :)
Thanks very much Maebeme, and you're right--the bag was definitely a lot smaller than 2 years ago. My gosh I figured they were even pricier at conveneince stores or gas stations. I'm officially done with 'em! As for the dental work, yes I'm scared about all the jawbone drilling. But it's my only option.
DeleteHi Doug, I haven’t bought a bag of potato chips in probably twenty years. I DO buy “veggie chips-sticks” when they are on sale. I won’t pay more than a few bucks for them. Yes, I am cheap! Rents have shot up here too. I don’t think you can get a one bedroom apartment for under $1400.00. It is crazy! Groceries are skyrocketing here too as for everybody I guess. Chuck has a couple dental implants in his lower jaw (both sides) . They were put in after an accident at work. He broke his jaw and lost a bunch of teeth. They were done in 1993. He was told at the time he would get at the most twenty years out of them. They are made out of titanium and gold. He is so fussy with his teeth they are in perfect condition. The dentist is alway amazed that they have lasted this long. It is a scary thing to undertake. Do you have some sort of coverage?
ReplyDeleteTake care!❤️
Robin
Robin we are kindred spirits--that's what I buy too, those veggie chip sticks (crunchy but still easy on the jaw). "Veggie Straws". Well, I KNOW how expensive it is up where you live, I watch a lot of apt & condos for rent in Toronto or Vancouver on Youtube or HGTV and always wonder how people afford them. As for Chuck, his broken jaw accident--ugh!! But that's wonderful how he's kept those implants. Back in the 90s I got several upper bridges and I was told they'd last me 15 years. It's been double that so... I'm not as careful as Chuck. :^) Thanks for your unput and for sharing Robin,
DeleteDoug, that rent increase is 5%. Are your utilities included? If so, that’s likely what’s causing the increase. As for the chips, I’d be okay if they cost $25 😄because I’m never going to buy (or eat) junk food. Actually, I’m with Carol. I’m pretty sure I would have been buying beans—much healthier and cheaper. But I know what you mean about the higher prices. Here’s an interesting fact; Americans actually pay a smaller “percentage” of their paychecks for groceries now than they did back in the 1950s. Sounds unbelievable but it’s true.
ReplyDeleteHi Don, how are you? Thanks for your comment here--as for my utilities, my rent includes my water/sewage and trash pickup, I'm responsible for everything else. My electric bill is still pretty low though, around $63.00 a month. This place is VERY well insulated. That fact of yours about 1950s groceries.. wow. Well sir, no more Ruffles for me! :^)
DeletePotato chips are a thing of the past for me. But yeah. They are expensive. I questionDon's numbers though. Does that number reflect the money spent eating out - which would reduce grocery costs (while dramatically increasing the cost of their food bill dramatically). Doug, do you have air fryer?
ReplyDeleteDebby, they're pretty much a thing of the past for me too--I think it's why their price surprised me so. As for Don's stats I couldn't say but I did calculate the price of chips of today vs. 1970 based on the Federal minimum wage then & today. We're paying twice as much for chips now, basically. And yes I have an air fryer, I don't use it that often though.
DeleteDoug, I was pretty sure that some would not really believe my comment above about spending for food in the 1950s vs. today. Here's just one quick article from a reliable source. There are many, many more. It's true. https://cepr.net/publications/in-the-good-old-days-one-fourth-of-income-went-to-food/
ReplyDeleteThank you Don, I am really looking forward to reading that. Hope all is good with you;
DeleteNo, It's not that I'm not believing it, Don. My question is that people eat out A WHOLE lot more than they did in the 50s. I wondered if that was being calculated into it. I mean, you buy less groceries when you're eating at home less. That's all I was saying. Not trying to argue or insinuate that you are lying. I researched your comment myself. I just have questions about their methodology. Also, the middle class is a lot smaller than it used to be. So yes. If you're making six figures, your grocery bill is not going to be a problem. If you are poor or even middle class, it can be a bit of a pinch.
DeleteSo every time you remark about costs or prices, the person you're speaking to has to point out how much more someone else is paying for something similar? People do that to me too! I think they are trying to make you feel better and perhaps "lucky." I call BS! Everyone is affected by high prices , bad luck and pain in different ways. I guess it's human nature to say such annoying things, but comments like you've been experiencing serve no useful purpose, they certainly didn't make you feel better, did they? Like you, I give these well-meaning folks a pass, but I'm not sure why they feel the need to share such useless remarks.
ReplyDeleteAnd, unlike the rest of your blog audience, I'm gonna admit that not only do I love potato chips, I regularly buy them at outlets for pennies on the dollar. At the end of December, we bought two party size, 13 oz bags of Utz (really delicious, if they sell them in your area) for just $1.00!
Bobi... I very much wish I could hug you right now. Gosh I loved this, thank you. And wow about your sale chips and you know what, I used to love Utz, in particular their Dill Pickle chips! I'm going to look for those and buy them and and let you know when I find them. 👍❤️🙂
DeleteI don't remember how much my rent increased last time, but I do remember I calculated it was 5%. My income is fixed, too, and it's worrisome. I suppose the landlords are between a rock and a hard place, too.
ReplyDeleteThanks Joanne, 5% doesn't sound like a lot but it can FEEL a lot. But you're right about the rock and a hard place, I'm trying my best to keep that in mind.
DeleteIt's hard (and not very sympathetic) to point out to people how much worse they or other people have it. A rent increase is hard to budget for. I can't buy chips because I have no self-control with salty things, so I haven't noticed the prices. I'm sure that groceries and housing will soon come down, gas too. After all, we'll have a new "president" who cares about our well-being and the economy, right? *sarcasm*
ReplyDeleteThank you Margaret, for what you said here and the sarcasm too! I don't think I'd be getting through the next 4 years without you. 🙂
DeleteInflation\sticker shock can be pretty unnerving! I tell myself, "It's only 2025 dollars, not 1950 ones." Sorry to hear of your dental problems, Doug. I envy sharks with their automatic teeth replacement system.
ReplyDeleteThank you Florence, I was just thinking about you this morning. It's like zero temps in Pittsburgh right now and wondering how things were up there. As for sharks, you're both funny and right. I saw something on TV a couple months ago where scientists were close to figuring out how to make humans regrow their teeth too. Who knows, maybe in 100 years! 😉
DeleteCoincidentally this was published today from NPR: https://www.npr.org/2025/01/14/nx-s1-5241014/walmart-prices-npr-shopping-cart-2024
ReplyDeleteDon this is excellent, thanks very much. I'm still reading, but I like that "pricing ladder" halfway down, showing products that decreased in 1 year, stayed the same, increased. And there's those Lay's chips, 10% higher.
DeleteI haven’t eaten any chips for years, decades even.
ReplyDeleteOh, there’s one exception – corn chips, which we have when I make some guacamole (several times a summer).
Ham, I know about, but ham sliders are a mystery to me. Probably some American food company over-complicating perfectly good ingredients.
Your rent increases (and the same thing is happening here) made me glad I bought my place in ’87 (just before house prices sky-rocketed).
I had a tooth implant a few years ago. Fortunately, the price was far less than that.
Thanks for sharing Peter-- I could go for some corn chips and guacamole about now! You gave me a chuckle with your ham sliders wondering. It only means using miniature burger buns, that's all! And yes, good point about buying your home in your younger years. I should've done that too. 🤔
DeleteI turned 60 last Sunday - my first big birthday since my husband died . My kids are I are spending the week in New York , and I cannot believe how
ReplyDeleteMuch the prices have risen here
I feel for everyone impacted by rent rises - out of your control Ana often arbitrary . I am so glad my husband and I were able to buy a house and clear the mortgage - even with the upkeep it’s a long term asset . Would you consider buying a property Doug ?
Siobhan x
Hi Siobhan, Happy Belated Birthday 🎂! 60 is a big milestone, I'm very glad for your celebration with your kids. I know things have been tough for you. Well, I'm glad to hear you own your home. The older I get, the more I believe I should've done that. But given my ripe old age of 63, I think I’m good. 🤔 I hope you enjoy your week, thanks for your comment. 🙂
DeleteYes, life is expensive to maintain. I am so glad I married David. Because of him, I have a high standard of living. He feels the same about me. Without my money, he would have a lower standard of living.
ReplyDeleteThat's wonderful Gigi, I know you & David have a great partnership---I always enjoy your Hawaiian road-trips and dining!
DeleteDid you go to giant eagle? They are getting expensive… back in the day my grandmother bought Charles chips in a tin canister..good times..my favorite is salt and vinegar..and the spicy pineapples Poe bake sounds great! I’m going to have to try it. What brand?
ReplyDeleteBeth
Thanks Beth. Actually, I haven’t been to a Giant Eagle since last Christmas when my friend Sue gave me a lift to the one on Mt Nebo to pick up my BP meds. As for those tin canisters, I remember them but haven’t seen them in many years! That spicy pineapple ham is made by Eckrich and soon good 👍 😋
DeleteI’ll have to try it!
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