Thursday, March 27, 2025

Aw fudge, once again I’m on the inside looking out—I’m sure it’ll end soon

I’m a little bummed.  Yesterday (Wednesday) I was supposed to head to the Lutheran Center for a pot roast lunch and 50’s root beer float, but spent the night before with a lot of body aches & fever.  When I finally got up, my head was congested and throat hurt to swallow. 

C’mon, I just got over the flu a little over a week ago!

I’m guessing it’s a lousy cold, with really awful timing.  Colds always remind me of that one episode of The Mary Tyler Moore Show where Mary gets sick and mumbles to herself “Colds are 3 days coming, 3 days with you, 3 days going…” 

I sure hope this one doesn’t last 9 days.

Still, I consider myself lucky.  The day before this cold hit (Tuesday) I did make it to the center (my first time there since our trip to the aviary last week) and got to see some of my favorite people—Geri, Colleen, Mary, Paul & Evvie.  

Lunch was chicken stuffed with broccoli & cheese, orzo, green beans, chopped fruit.  There was also some wonderful slivers of blackberry pie.  I have to admit, I was pretty surprised when they announced a second grade class from a nearby elementary school would be paying us a visit.  Shortly after, the place pretty much exploded with children but I say that in a good way.  These kids were all 7-8 years old and you couldn’t ask for a sweeter, more fun bunch.

One little girl came over to my table and plopped down in the seat beside me.  She wore such a serious expression that my first instinct was to try and make her smile, but decided against it and just talked to her like I would anyone else. 

I asked her name, did she have any brothers or sisters, own any pets.  She told me her name was Ophelia, she had 3 sisters and 1 brother, and a cat.  I said “Your brother has 4 sisters?  Is he your slave?”  She did smile but said no, because he was 2 years older.  Makes sense to me!

Here’s our lunch—stuffed chicken, orzo, green beans and blackberry pie.  The kids made us laminated placemats with messages of caring.

Something just occurred to me—back in 1968, before we moved to the farmhouse and still lived in town, my cub scout troop made Christmas “snowball” ornaments to hand out to the old folks at the local nursing home.  And now here I am… I’m not ready.

Well, I don’t have a lot else to share here—just wanted to check in and keep the old blog fresh, like the milk in my fridge.  And speaking of fresh milk, I believe I’ve found what I was looking for, for now at least.

If you recall, I recently wrote about the 2% milk from the store going bad in just a couple days, so I needed to find an alternative.  I tried oat milk, but it was too thick for me with a chalky aftertaste.

A couple other bloggers suggested Fairlife Ultra Pasteurized Milk which also comes in 2 percent; when I went to buy it, I noticed my market had a generic version for a much lower price.  Like the Fairlife, it also has a month-long expiration date and was only a dollar more than regular milk!   So I got a carton and it has stayed fresh and delicious for over a week now.  I am blown away, ultra-pasteurized is the way to go.

I still want to try the coconut milk, and the Fairlife—but for now I have something I can enjoy.  I’ll never go back to regular milk again.   And on that happy note, some juice and a hot bath are calling.  Thanks for reading. 

35 comments:

  1. Having been sequestered for most of the winter, I'm sure your immune system is zilch so you are probably going to be catching every germ that comes your way. I taught high school for 21 years and at first I caught a bug at the start of every new school year. Someone recommended probiotics. I started them and sure enough, they built my immunity to fight off the various bugs that came by. Terry thought it was all in my head. Sure, could be, I didn't care. Then our granddaughter was born and every time he saw her he got a cold. I recommended the probiotics and, sure enough, he no longer got sick. The granddaughter is now 16 and we are still taking the probiotics and doing very well. Just a suggestion.

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    1. Thanks dkzody, my friend Diana told me the exact same thing you said here (being sequestered for a year, immune systemm down). I appreciate your advice and I'm ordering a bottle of probiotics today. I did take them a couple years ago for stomach issues and believe in them.

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  2. Sorry you missed out on the pot roast and root beer float - that sounded like fun. But you did get your chicken dinner... and the school kids visit. I had to laugh though as DH would definitely say that school kids are like Typhoid Mary. Every time our grandkids came by, he got sick. When we go to their school's grandparent's day, we mask up... seems to work. And glad you found a milk that works for you! Feel better! Hugs ; )

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    1. Thanks Rian, you're very kind! The Typhoid Mary thing gave me a chuckle, but I think I showed up that day with the cold virus already in me. I just hope I didn't make THEM sick. I hope you're doing okay. :^)

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  3. Hi Doug, sorry you weren’t able to attend the pot roast lunch! Your chicken lunch looks delicious. Glad you were able to find a milk that lasts for you. Hope you feel better soon.❤️❤️
    Robin

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    1. Thank you Robin, I know this is silly stuff I just wanted to post something new. I'm sure I'll be my old self in a couple days, in the meantime it's nice hearing from you and I hope you and Chuck are both well. 🙂👍❤️

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  4. John has a cold and his usually last two weeks, ugh. After my last two miserable ones, I'm no longer bragging about how I sail through them. I don't know why I'm suddenly have sinus involvement--old age? That lunch looks delicious and how sweet to have the kids visit. What a thoughtful gesture! I'm a big believer in ultra pasteurized milk although my store sometimes runs out of it. Apparently, it's popular with many people!

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    1. Margaret, thank you my friend I always like your feedback. Y'know, I'm really getting to know you--I KNOW John has lengthy colds! Sure am hoping I'm not the same, but I wonder if you're right about the old age. Gulp. I was also just wondering if I should be writing so much about the ultra-pasteurized milk, my store has a very limited stock too and those people at the center do read my blog :^(

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  5. Your blog always feels fresh and vibrant Doug - even when you are not feeling well
    The visits from the children would lovely- and you are NOT OLD .
    A sad week for me - Tuesday marked two years since Tony died . And my life changed for ever ,and not in a good way . I am seeing my kids this weekend- it’s Mothers Day here - and looking for flights as I am going to visit a good friend in New York State
    in July
    Hope the cold moves on swiftly
    Siobhan

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    1. You're very kind, thanks Siobhan. I always look forward to your comment. Gosh I am sorry for your sad anniversary, I know what a struggle this has been for you. But I admire you for doing what you can to move on. Your trip sounds exciting. You inspire me. 🙂

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    2. Come visit! You would be very welcome xx

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    3. You are so sweet, thank you! :^)

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  6. Those kids that came to the center were amazing!!! When I was in 2nd grade I would have never talked to a stranger, let alone an old one lol!!! They were so friendly and outgoing. Sorry you’re not feeling good BUT 4/10 is flatbread turkey!
    Get better and be there
    Mary

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    1. Thank you Mary, and I should've written this because that's exactly what I thought - - those kids were so friendly and outgoing! Anyway I did see the menu and the turkey flatbread and thought of you. I'll be back next week for sure and definitely on that date. 🙂👍

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  7. Well, how about that? I am glad you like the lactose-free milk. I have been drinking it and love it. I like the stuffed chicken. You sure do eat well over there. Hope your cold is over soon.

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    1. Thank you Gigi and you're absolutely right, the lactose-free milk is awesome. As for my meals, that's nice of you to say but I would happily trade my meals with yours anytime! ☺️

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  8. And you wonder where you got that cold! Thanks, Ophelia.

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  9. Sorry about your cold. May it be short lived! Thanks for the milk tip. I can't stand even a hint of milk going bad. I'll give it a try! Get lots of liquids and rest Doug, you know the drill.

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    1. Thank you Bonnie, I know a cold is pretty low on the totem pole compared to your situation. I think about you everyday. And I couldn't agree more about the milk, I hate even the slightest hint of sour. I'm surprised they don't ultra pasteurize all dairy products.

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  10. Sorry you're sick again, that stinks. If you just had the flu, your immune system is probably overwhelmed at the moment and made you susceptible.

    And the Fairlife milk was a game changer for me! It's all I ever buy and I'm glad you've tried it and liked it too. I wish my local stores had a generic version of it, but since they don't I'll gladly pay a little more to have milk that I can use every drop of. I used to waste half the milk I bought because it smelled off to me right away!

    At my job at the elementary school, I've made a few little friends (I'm the bookkeeper, so I don't have a whole lot of contact with the kids) who stop by the office every morning to give me hugs and chat for a minute. My two favorites (siblings) have a sweet mom who saw on Facebook it was my birthday the other day, and filmed them singing "Happy Birthday" to me and posted it on my page, and ended the video by saying, "We love you!" It nearly made me cry.

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    1. Happy Belated Birthday Jennifer, I was just over on your blog this morning reading about your cake-making efforts! Thank you for your kind words here, and a big thank you for the milk recommendation. I think I'm actually saving money, half my milk was going to waste too. This was very nice to read about your closeness with those kids at your school, gosh how sweet what they did for your FB page. :-)

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  11. It's so not fair that you are sick again. I predict you will be well soon, though, and thanks for the story about the kids coming to your center. I'll bet they will cherish the visit themselves.

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  12. Thank you DJan, and I wish I could have shared a couple of the kids photos here as I did take some. But the center asked me not to, and they were right of course.

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  13. Sorry to hear you aren't feeling well again. I do hope the cold is over with soon.
    My grandson is 8, and it's such a fun age. Old enough to have a conversation with, young enough that attitude is limited to such comments as, "next time, don't tell mom, okay?"

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    1. Thank you Maebeme, I'm feeling better already. And haha about your grandson, that is a great age! I'm sure he loves his grandmother very much :^)

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  14. I have never paid enough attention I guess. Ultra pasturized milk! I'm off to read about it.

    Your visit sounds delightful. As an oldest sister, I could have told you that 'slavery' always rolls down hill. The slave is the youngest.

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    1. Thank you Debby--as for the pecking order in Ophelia's family, I only asked because girls can be bossy and there was 1 brother to 4 sisters. I have 3 sisters myself. :^)

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    2. I'm the second oldest. The youngest (my sister Courtney) is still in her forties!

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  15. I hope you are doing better!! Good grief, if it isn't one thing, it's another! And a pot roast dinner with a ROOT BEER FLOAT. That sounds delicious! So disappointing!!! And for a stinking cold. What fun to have 7 year old guests come to the center to visit. I am a huge fan of young children, as you know. Ophelia sounds like a delightful friend. And you solved the milk situation. Currently we go through a ridiculous amount of milk at my house, I try to keep an extra gallon in the fridge. But someday it will be just me drinking milk and this info will be helpful!

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    1. Thank you Miss Merry, you're very kind--I thought of you when I was writing this blog, I originally planned to include Ophelia's photo here. I thought "Well, Miss Merry always includes her grandchildren.." but the center asked me not to and they were right, of course. I'm glad we get to see yours though :^)

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  16. Lordy, if it’s not one thing it’s another.
    I suspect it’ll take the full 9 days to get over the cold because I’ve found that as we age (and I have a head start on you in that regard) it takes longer to get over these things.

    It also takes longer to get around to comment on your column.

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    1. Ha, thank you Peter. To be honest I was going to reach out to you this week and ask if you were okay. As for this bug taking 9 days, I believe you're right. I'm on the mend but it's been 7 days already!

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