Monday, September 29, 2025

Don’t fix it if it’s not broken—I hope I’m finally learning my lesson

Can I share a couple quick gripes and then bow out quietly again?   I’ve had a rocky couple of days, and just wanted to vent.  First of all, what you see here is my old Xfinity router and my new X1 Gateway.  I’ve had my old Xfnity router for 7 years and it’s never given me a lick of trouble.

(Well, a few years ago I thought it was dying when my internet stopped working—I jumped thru enough hoops to warrant an actual technician here, who determined my router was fine, someone had disconnected my broadband connector in the basement.)

Anyway—for the last 5-6 months, I’ve been getting texts from Xfinity.  “We noticed you’re still using an old router!  We will be happy to replace that with a Gateway, at no extra charge!  Type 1 for YES, or 2 for NO”   I always hit 2—I was fine with my old one, why fix it if it’s not broken?

But the texts continued, so finally last week I caved and hit yes.  And two days later, this newer gizmo showed up at my mailbox, with instructions on downloading the X1 app and setting it up myself. 

Suffice it to say, I followed the instructions very carefully and everytime I ran a test on the app, got back “It’s not working.  Let’s troubleshoot!”   I troubleshooted until 1:30am Saturday night.  I finally said to hell with it, hooked my old one back up… nope!  That one was now officially a brick! 

The next morning, I got another text from Xfinity.  “There seems to be a problem with your internet.  Would you like a technician to visit you?  Our nearest opening is Sept 30 at noon-2pm.”  I said yes.  It asked me if I was sure.   I SAID YES THE FIRST TIME!!!!!!!!!

I later figured out (on my own) how to ‘de-register’ and  re-register my old one, and got back my internet high-speed connection again.  And when that Xfinity tech arrives, I’ll be very curious to see if he gets the new one working—but I am REALLY attached to that old one and plan to let him know.  I should’ve trusted my gut to begin with.

It just reminds me of this continued inflammation in my head & face, the return of long covid symptoms after that 3 hour dental appointment.  I wasn’t experiencing any pain or discomfort with my teeth, all I wanted was a good teeth cleaning!  That dentist insisted I had 5-6 developing cavities!  I was 80-90% past the long covid inflammation, until he got in there and started drilling away.  This is Day 21 of it returning.  Again, why fix it if it wasnt broken… I just want to scream.

Finally… yesterday (Sunday) afternoon I was sitting here preparing to eat my dinner, some stewed tomatoes and a Havarti omelet, when my heart began racing.  I said “Oh well” and dug in.  A few minutes later, my heart began pounding and I broke out in a very hot sweat—I raced to the bathroom and threw up what I’d eaten.  Was I having a heart attack?

I called 911, told them what was happening and asked if I should wait & see if things subside.  They said absolutely not, they were sending someone right away.  I raced in my bedroom to change my pants and grab my wallet, by then the pain was spreading out across my torso and I was finding it more & more difficult to breathe.

Two EMT medics arrived within 10 minutes; I was laying on my living room floor but had my front door standing open so they could see me quick enough.  Long story short, I was taken to Mercy Hospital, had an x-ray, CT scan and abdominal ultrasound and they determined I had a large gallstone trapped in my bile duct.

If you’ve ever had kidney stones or gallstones, you know they can leave you gasping.  One feels like a knife in your back, the other like a knife in the stomach.  Here’s the difference though, kidney stones (once passed) leave you achy and sore in your back & sides for a couple days.  Gallstones?  The pain is like an on & off switch.  Once its passed, you’re fine.

I finally passed it a couple hours later.  Mercy was going to send me home, but after learning I lived alone and had no family nearby, kept me overnight for observation.  They even arranged a cab home for me early Monday morning.  Before I left the hospital, the AP asked me if I’d given any thought to gallbladder surgery (considering my prior history) and I did say it’s crossed my mind, what did he think. 

He said my attacks have been infrequent (my last one was a year ago) and as the gb looks healthy and hasn’t given me any real problems yet, why fix it if it isn’t broken.  Yes this time I’m going with that.

Thanks for reading, talk to everyone again soon.

UPDATE:  It took him 1 hour and 39 minutes, but Josh from Xfinity got my new gateway up and running.  The black one is no more, and Josh informed me it was on it’s last legs.  Life goes on...

29 comments:

  1. I'm guilty of the same thing, Doug! I get something new because I'm convinced I need it and then it won't work. Nothing makes me more frustrated than stuff that doesn't function--especially when there was nothing wrong with the old one. I'm so sorry for the health stuff too; the gallstone attack must have been terrifying. (and painful) My dad had one too and everyone thought it was a heart attack. Unlike you, his gall bladder needed to come out; back then it was an actual surgery instead of the much easier way they extract it now.

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    1. Thanks Margaret--well, that Xfinity guy is coming tomorrow so I may talk him into taking the "new and improved" one back. And I guess I'm lucky I haven't gotten my own gall bladder removed just yet.

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  2. Oh no, not some other ailment to trouble you. I’m glad that that one was resolved fairly promptly.

    I always hit “No” when asked if I want an update. I’m still using Windows 10 on my computer, and I had Windows XP on my other one until recently (that computer turned up its computery toes, alas).
    Like you, I used to be in the computer biz. I know what can go wrong when updating software, no matter how thoroughly and meticulously it has been tested.

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    1. Thank you Peter, and I'm responding to your comment on my 2011 Toshiba laptop running Windows 7 :^)

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  3. Dug, I know nothing about routers, but I agree with the "if it's not broke, don't fix it". And nothing wrong with venting... as you know, I tend to do it quite often. It's good to get it out.
    Now as for your recent hospital visit... good lord, Dug. How scary! I would have thought you were having a heart attack too. Although I do know what gall stones feel like. Had an attack years ago and they took mine out without much thought. I think it was done laparoscopically. But with you dealing with long covid, I think you made the right call. Try to get that over and done before dealing with anything else (if that's possible). Again sending good thoughts, vibes, and virtual hugs your way!

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    1. Thank you Rian, I much appreciated this. And yes, no more hosital or dental visits (hopefully) until I can get this covid stuff behind me. Wow, so you're another no-more-gallbladder... maybe that will be me too, eventually.

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  4. Oh gosh, I am glad you called the ambulance right away. You are certainly having more than your share of health issues! Bah Humbug. I agree. Let sleeping gall stones lie - don't fix what isn't broke.
    Just what you need on top of the headache pain is stinking computer issues.
    I am so sorry. I hope that October is a more friendly month!

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    1. Thanks very much Miss Merry, much appreciated my friend :^)

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  5. Doug, I’m so sorry to read about your continuing suffering. You’ve had WAY more than your share of difficulties lately and are overdue for some good karma. I’m sending positive energy your way 😊.

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    1. Don, thank you my friend you're very kind. Just a little bad luck, things are going to turn around soon I'm sure!

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  6. Doug!!! I am so sorry you have been dealing with all this.❤️❤️ So scary. I really hope things settle down for you. You deserve a pain free fall/winter.
    Take care.
    Robin

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    1. Hi Robin, this was very sweet of you I love the exclamation marks! I'm really hoping that things can only go up from here. Anyway I really hope you and Chuck are doing well, and he's enjoying his retirement. 🤎

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    2. We are good Doug. Chuck is enjoying retirement and we both are enjoying the cooler fall weather.
      Robin

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  7. Sometimes we need a refresher in life lessons, Doug. "If it ain't broke, don't fix it" is a good one. So sorry about your pseudo heart attack ordeal. Ye gads!!!!!! ❤️❤️🦉

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    1. Thank you Florence, I am lucky it wasn't a heart attack. Now I'm just anxious to get this Xfinity technician in and out of my house, I've learned my lesson! 👍

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  8. I did have a kidney stone once, and I remember how good I felt one it passed. You have been through the wringer. I wouldn't have any kind of surgery right now if I were you. Sending you virtual hugs, though.

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  9. I'm convinced your luck has got to change soon! We've all had years like this and it sucks big-time. My hubby had a gallstone that wouldn't pass that required major surgery (years ago before the newer surgery they offer now) so he knows your pain, he's also had kidney stones, definitely not fun. Glad to hear you got great care quickly but sorry to hear different body parts keep turning on you.
    And next to health issues, tech troubles are the worst! Nothing sends me into a fit of rage and crying quicker than a tech failure--they make me feel stupid and helpless because unlike other problems I face, tech is not designed to be intuitive for the average person. Sending you positive vibes for a great October!

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  10. Bobi I'm so sorry to read about your husband's own Stone issues, but I'm going to read your comment here over and over again because it really hit the spot! Thank you very much my friend and I'm very sorry for all my pity party posts lately. It does help to get it out of my system though. 🙂👍🤎

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  11. I've had a kidney stone once and that was pain enough for me...not quite as bad as child birth but definitely horrid. Your description of the gallbladder stone sounds absolutely frightening and I'm glad you called 911.
    If things happen in threes, I think that's quite enough for you. Good luck with the tech guy!

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    1. Thank you Maebeme--I'm sorry you've had to experience kidney stones yourself, but I do like your 'things happen in threes' theory. And I appreciate the good luck with the tech guy, he'll be here in 2 hours. We'll see! :^)

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  12. I’m glad you are well

    Beth

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  13. Holy cow, Doug! I just don't even know what to say. You are having quite a time of it. This really is a horrifying time for you.

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    1. Thanks Debby, just some rotten luck this past month!

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  14. Dug, this is Rian. It's 10:15 Thursday night and I couldn't get your latest post to come up. I don't know if it's me... or your post. It says that new post "When it rains, it pours" doesn't exist?

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    1. Hi Rian, I felt guilty for posting another boohoo post and took it down, but I can put it back up if you're curious..

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    2. Found it this morning (Friday)!!

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