Sunday, July 12, 2026

A moment of mourning for Dana

Dana Faulk
A couple days ago, Dana Faulk, 55 was at a red light when the driver behind him began revving his engine and honking his horn, and yelling out the window.  He didn't think Dana was close enough to the traffic light.

A passenger in Dana's car said Dana was confused and didn't understand why the man behind him was yelling "to drive the %$#@^* up".

Dana ignored him, and when the light turned green proceeded to drive slowly on Corliss Street, a single lane road in each direction.  The driver behind him, Joel Ingram, 41 waited until there was no oncoming vehicles then drove up alongside Dana and shot him in the head, killing Dana instantly.  He then sped off.

Thanks to surveillance cameras at the location and various witnesses, police located Ingram at a gas station an hour later and arrested him.

Joel did not have a license for the gun he was carrying, and several people said he announced his intentions at the traffic light--what he was going to do to Dana once he caught up to him.  A legal expert said those threats could be used by the prosecution to charge him with first degree murder.

Joel Ingram, one less monster on the road

This local news story really struck a nerve with me.  He took Dana's life so casually, and in the process has probably thrown away his own.  Of course most of us have tempers too.  But to do what this man did--shoot and kill an innocent man for some perceived slight--his reasons are truly lost on me.  

This takes me back to 2009, when I was in a similar situation.  I was driving back to Pittsburgh one Sunday evening, after spending the day at my sister Shawn's house.  (Shawn, her husband Jim and my niece Sophia live 65 miles south of me.)

I always got on I-79 North, rode it for an hour to the Emsworth/Sewickley Exit, then another 15 minutes on Route 65 aka Ohio River Boulevard, first to Emsworth then to my neighborhood Avalon.

(Route 65 is jokingly known as a speed trap by locals.  The Avalon police seem to patrol it pretty well, especially on the weekends.)

So this one Sunday I turn off I-79, take the exit and as soon as I pull onto 65 a car pulls up behind me.  He gunned his engine a couple times--I knew he wanted me to speed up but I was sticking to the speed limit.  

Now he was getting angry and was on my tail, right on it.  He also had his high beams on and was honking his horn.  This went on for over a mile and as I had nowhere to turn, could only keep driving.  I was a nervous wreck.

Suddenly, an Avalon police cruiser seemed to come out of nowhere and pulled into the lane ahead of me, while blue lights began flashing behind as well.  We were both getting pulled over.  I was so relieved!

The officers in the car ahead walked back and told me to hang tight.  They conferred with the officers in the back, then one of them approached my open drivers window and said "The couple behind you say they know you, and were only trying to get your attention.  Is that true?"

What!  I could see them in my rear view mirror.  The man was standing outside his car, next to 2 officers.  His passenger (his girlfriend or wife or whatever) was still in the car, staring in my direction with a sort of pleading look and shaking her head.  I told the officers absolutely not, I never saw them before I got off that exit.     

He said they figured that but were still obligated to ask.  When I asked if the driver was going to get ticketed, the officer said he was under arrest for reckless driving.  He took down my personal info, than told me I was free to go.  

Dana's death has me sitting here thinking "What if no police had shown up that night?  What would've happened to me?"   I wish poor Dana had gotten the same rescue I did.  

25 comments:

  1. What a terrorizing story--both yours and Dana's. How horrible that you had that happen to you, and yes, it could have ended differently had it not been for observant motor police.

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    1. Thanks dkzody. I know this wasn't something encouraging or positive to blog about, but Dana's tragedy on the local news Friday night... I couldn't stop thinking about it, realized how fortunate I was.

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  2. Just dreadful . May he rest in peace . Will light a candle for him - what a waste of life and how casually someone can decide to kill another
    Siobhan

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    1. Thanks Siobhan, not a fun thing to write about but I couldn't stop thinking about it.

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  3. You know, I think that everyone has had an experience with a crazy driver. But it just seems to me that the crazy has been ratcheted up now. why does everyone think they have the right to dictate how everyone else drives, or thinks or acts, or dresses...the list really could go on forever. Live and let live...what happened to that?

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    1. Well said Debby, thank you. Interesting what you said here, I was recently watching a video on Youtube about people who moved into HOA communities (and very much regretted it). As for Joel, I hope he's thinking long and hard what he did the other night.

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  4. There's so much anger now and with easy access to weapons, it's a recipe for tragedy. Poor Dana--and his family. :( I got a ticket in the mail on a stretch of road with a speed camera; I thought the speed limit was 40 but it was 35. Now I go exactly the speed limit on that stretch which REALLY angers some of the drivers behind me. I wish I could explain to them that I don't want another ticket!

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    1. Thank you Margaret and yes, WAY TOO MUCH access to guns. Still, I can't figure out what Dana did that caused his own demise. I hope Joel gets a lot of years behind bars to think about what he did.

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  5. Interesting story... both, Dug. You were very lucky. People can be weird and lately seem more easily angered by simple things (and the heat doesn't help). I've seen many cars leave more than 2 spaces behind another at a light... not sure why that is, but it's their perogative. It does bother some people, but I can't imagine shooting someone over it. Wow! And of course so many people carry guns these days... especially here in Texas.

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    1. Thank you Rian. After seeing Dana's story on the news the other night, my heart broke for him but it did make me realize how fortunate I was. And I do know how Texas is about guns, but I guess no state is that safe nowadays. I wish we could trade them all in for stun-guns.

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  6. I think road rage is ridiculous. I'm sorry you found yourself in that situation but gratfeful that the police trap was in position. It may have ended up much worse.
    Joel is a POS, and deserves to spend the rest of his life in prison. Dana certainly didn't deserve what happened to him, no one does.
    `I was warned in Yuma never to honk at anyone, as it might cause some one to road rage. We don't have the same issue with guns here (though it has happened), and when I had a fellow chase me one time in the city, I drove to the police station.

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    1. Thank you Maebeme, and I couldn't agree more about road rage--what the HELL is these people's problem? I also think Joel should be locked away for life. He's 41 years old, I don't see that POS turning over a new leaf. I'm sorry you were chased yourself once, my gosh.... and I envy you for not having the gun problem we have.

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  7. Gigi Hawaii. Terrible what happened to you and Dana. Guns should be only owned by the police, not ordinary citizens.

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  8. I get angry when things like this happen. I'm glad that slimeball got caught. It's a sobering thought that you could have ended up dead also if the cops weren't there on the road. It's too bad they weren't there for Dana.
    Steve from Toronto

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    1. Thank you Steve, I know this wasn't a pleasant topic for me to share but seeing poor Dana on the news... slimeball is right. I hope that idiot gets life.

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  9. We have road rage here too, but fortunately, we have far fewer guns.
    It seems to me that it’s often a case (as with you) of someone doing the right thing, obeying the traffic rules, and the rager not liking that.

    I’m really sorry for Dana, and even a teeny bit for Joel who threw away his life doing that stupid thing. Okay, carrying a gun was a really stupid thing to start with.

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    1. Thank you Peter, as always, well said. And the truth of the matter is, if this was Australia then Dana would probably still be alive. And you're right about Joel too. His life is kaput.

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  10. This is so sad. Dana was totally blameless, but even if not -there is no excuse for this behavior. This country was founded on civilized remedies to infractions - police officers, prosecutors and the judicial system. We can't allow people to serve as all three in the streets. I see this as no different from dragging people from homes and hanging them. My heart breaks for Dana and his family and friends.
    I can't imagine how terrifying that incident was for you. How dare his wife expect you to lie for him. I wonder how many other people he terrified or worse while driving. I am so glad he was arrested.

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    1. Thanks very much Miss Merry, I was just thinking about you a little bit ago. I hope you're doing alright. I know this wasn't an entertaining topic on my end, I just can't get poor Dana's tragic ending out of my head. I just hope his murderer has PLENTY of time in prison to think about why he's there. My incident was 15 years ago but it stuck with me a long time.

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  11. Road rage has been around for a long time, as your terrifying experience demonstrates, but I honestly think the current political climate has emboldened the angry segment of society even more. Civility isn't dead but it's definitely down for the count. So sad.🙁

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    1. Thank you Bobi, and well said. I see a tie-in too, I just pray it doesn't get worse.

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  12. Oh my goodness Doug, this is so sad. I am thankful the police were there for you.Take care Doug.❤️

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    1. Thank you Robin. Well, mine was so long ago it's been mostly forgotten. But when I saw Dana's tragedy unfold on the news... it's unreal. I hope you and Chuck are good. 🧡

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  13. Hello, Just wanted to leave a quick note to say thank you for this fantastic article!

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