In the spring of 1985, my oldest brother Duke was living in Washington DC and my sister Shawn & I were working and living in a small house in town, back home in Waynesburg Pa.
There were still 3 kids at home—our brother Steve, and two sisters Donda-Lin & Courtney.
One day, Mom called Shawn & me with some exciting news; they were moving out of the old farmhouse and into a brand new mobile home. What!
My sister Shawn on the front porch at Reeseman’s, Aug 1995
After years of scrimping and saving on Mom’s part, they bought a brand new mobile home with a room sized ‘tip-out’ giving them a double-sized living room.
They managed to secure a corner spot on the perimeter of Reeseman’s, a large mobile home park halfway between the farmhouse and our high school in Jefferson Pa. Dad installed a porch and shed on their lot, and Mom planted flowers everywhere. My mom was very, very happy. Every time I made plans for a visit, Mom would say "Doug, bring your laundry home! We have city water now, we've got all the water you need!"
(Growing up with a shallow well, we never seemed to have water. I never brought my laundry to their new place, but it was funny and generous of her.)
Just months after moving there, my brother Steve graduated high school, married and moved out. One year later in 1986, our sister Donda-Lin did the same. Shawn moved back in with them.
They lived there from 1985 - 1999, before Dad talked Mom into moving to a house in the country again. But I know my mom was very happy there with her compact place and city water, and I was surprised she let it go.
I have hundreds of family photos, but only a dozen of the Reeseman years. I wanted to share them here as they are so few and I miss those times with my family so much. We got together at Reesemans often for holidays and family things, but shortly after they moved from there, Dad died and then Mom a couple years after that. All of the kids went their separate ways.
So if you'll indulge me... here's the few photos I have from those years at Reesemans.
My brother-in-law Bobby, me in the back and my pretty sister Donda-Lin at Christmas, in the 1990s.
Bobby & Donda-Lin’s baby Drew looks about a year old here, I’m guessing this is sometime in 1994. Drew and Dad were very close.
Dad is giving Drew a piano lesson, 1995. I just love this photo, Drew was curious & sweet as can be.
Here’s myself on the left, my brother Duke, our brother Steve with his sons Stevie and Eddie, and Dad. This is the only photo I have of the Morris men together.
My brother Steve from behind, Dad, a 3 year old Drew and our Grandma Morris, Christmas 1996. Where did the time go?
My (always photogenic) sister Donda-Lin enjoying our Mom's new "art" couch. That thing was super comfy, I miss it still.
Here's my youngest sister Courtney in her acid washed jeans, outside the front door
Grandma Morris and me, my birthday, Halloween 1996.
Here's Mom & Dad's dog Frankie (who Mom insisted was our brother). He was a sweet little guy, and after Dad & Mom's untimely passing was adopted by my sister Donda-Lin and her family, where he lived a long time.
I wasn't going to share this one, but oh well--home for Christmas, in my Superman sleep-clothes. (Mom supplied me with that red smock for my cape.)
And finally, I wanted to share this one with a funny story. The night before Thanksgiving 1993, I came home for the holiday weekend and saw no bags of food or such on the kitchen bar. I asked "Where's the stuff for tomorrow?" and Mom said Donda-Lin wanted to prepare the entire dinner, and would be arriving with everything.
I said "But she's 10 months pregnant!" and Mom said she couldn't talk her out of it. Sure enough, Donda's car pulls up outside and she comes clanging into Mom's house, giant with a baby and carrying all these pots and pans. I said "Donda what the hell!" and she started laughing and yelled at Mom that I was going to make her water break.
Sure enough, an hour or so later--her water broke. Shawn, Mom & Donda-Lin rushed to the hospital and Donda gave birth to her daughter Drew Thanksgiving morning.











Doug, so many wonderful photos! Thanks for sharing these.❤️❤️
ReplyDeleteThank you Robin, you're very kind! I know other family's photos aren't that interesting to everyone, I just loved these Reeseman years so much. ❤️
DeleteMy sister's niece had her water break when she reached down to grab a cold drink from the cooler at a family reunion. It is still a topic of conversation at the family reunions 10 years later.
ReplyDeleteYou and Duke are an image of each other.
What is that cage above your dad at the piano?
I guess some things are hard to forget! Thanks for sharing Debby. As for my brother Duke, I don't see it but I've only seen him twice in the last 30 years. As for that cage, I'm pretty sure there was nothing live in there. I'll have to ask my sister.
DeleteDug, you had/have a beautiful family. Great memories. Thanks for sharing. Makes me want to go through all our albums and boxes of pics... and remember. As we age, not all memories are good... but the good ones are wonderful and do bring a smile.
ReplyDeleteand love those Superman pj's!
DeleteThank you Rian... I hope you do, and share them too. This was just a little subset of my own photos, all the ones I had of my parents mobile home. I wish there was more. ❤️
DeleteHaha thank you! 😊
DeleteOh, my, you have so much family! Do you go visit your siblings or do they come to see you now? I knew you had a sister, but this is the first time I've read of so many siblings.
ReplyDeleteThanks dkzody, six kids like The Brady bunch. Three girls three boys. Unfortunately we're all pretty far from one another. My youngest sister Courtney lives in Ohio, my middle sister Donda lives in the deep South. My sister Shawn and brother Steve get together on occasion as they both still live back home.
DeleteHi Doug,
ReplyDeleteI enjoy looking at other peoples' old family photos and hearing the stories behind them, yours included. You get a warm happy feeling thinking of the good times captured in those pics. I'm the self designated archivist of our family's photos - these past few decades I managed to sort through a ton of photos and put them in albums that are categorized specifically, i.e. travel, etc. Nowadays, it's harder with so many digital photos taking up memory space in our cell phones (in my case, I have a digital camera because I'm still using a land line phone). I agree with one of the other commenters - you do take after your dad, and your Superman pajamas are cool. I once had a Superman t shirt myself when I was in elementary school. I stopped wearing it after I was mocked by some kid. I hope to hear more about your life in a mobile home. Take care.
Steve from Toronto
Hi Steve, it's good to hear from you again--digital camera? Landline phone? Now see, this is why I like you! (I didn't get a smartphone until 2 years ago.) Anyway, that's wonderful that you're the family archivist--I'm pretty much on my own now, after our parents passed everyone went in separate directions. I appreciate you comparing me to my dad, I think when I was a kid I really looked like him--and I'm sorry about the Superman shirt. Steve I didn't have my first one until my thirties :^) Anyway, this is pretty much it for my parents mobile home years--I never lived in one myself, but I'm still young yet so you never know :) Thanks again S.
DeleteI guess they used up all the good looks with the girls in the family :)
ReplyDeleteLOL! Peter, I always thought the same! 😆
DeleteGigi haw. So, what happened to Thanksgiving dinner? I love the trip down memory lane.
ReplyDeleteHaha! Gigi good question! Mom and Shawn came home, we all worked on dinner then packed some up for the new Mom and we all went back to the hospital 🙂
DeleteWhat a beautiful collection of photos and memories! Isn't it eerie to think of those past times and how many changes there have been? I'm curious about the Thanksgiving dinner too! Also, I need a catch up on what all the siblings are doing and where they are!
ReplyDeleteThank you Margaret! Mom called ahead and told us what to do to get dinner underway. Later, we packed up food and took it to the hospital to feed Donda and Bob. As for the sibs, my brother Duke is a retired lawyer, lives alone in rural Pa. We haven't spoken since Mom's funeral in 2004. My sister Shawn still lives back home with her husband and family, so does my brother Steve and his wife and sons. Donda lives in South Carolina with her husband and married daughter Drew, Courtney lives in Ohio with her hubby. Whew! 🙂
DeleteDoug, this is the sweetest post. Your mom sounds so wonderful. As a person who lived in the country with a well that had a tempermental pump, I know how exciting it was to have unlimited water! I am glad she got to purchase her dream home and you were able to create so many memories there. What great photos of you and you siblings.
ReplyDeleteIt's hard for my kids to understand how few photos survive from certain times in our lives. I remember when I would buy one roll (12 possible photos) for a birthday and save a few at the end for something else. You never took multiple shots, I would take one photo of my kids standing on the first step of the bus when they were starting kindergarten and almost always found out after Halloween (when I developed the film) that I had cut off their head.
Your sisters are all so beautiful! (and they look like mom).
My gosh Miss Merry, thank you so much for this very kind comment. It really meant a lot. And you are so right about the old days of photos, and how precious they can be.. taking a single shot and hoping for the best. You know, my mom LOVED taking photos and was thrilled in the late 70s when they started installing flashes on pocket cameras. She passed in 2004, right before they began selling digital cameras. I often think how thrilled she would've been. Anyway MM, thank you again. :^)
DeleteThese are wonderful photographs and wonderful
ReplyDeletememories. It’s important to remember the connections we have ( or had ), and that we all have a story to tell . Thank you for sharing a part of yours
Siobhan
Thank you Siobhan, that was very sweet of you to say. 😊
DeleteLovely family photos Doug. I've always been the family archivist but for several years, and with great relief, have turned much of it over to an organized and competent niece. She loves all the family "stuff" and will take good care of it all.
ReplyDeleteFun fact: I too was born on Thanksgiving day...but not until Mom had cooked the whole meal and fed about 20 people. Or so the story goes. Lol. But I was the 4th child and Ma was certainly a seasoned veteran at that point. I actually found the hospital bill for my birth. It was a grand total of $78.00 for a ten day stay, all meals, meds, and nursery for mom and baby included. Handwritten on a small 4x5 piece of paper. Imagine
Thank you Camille, and for sharing your own Thanksgiving connection. That hospital bill... amazing! And a sad reminder that health-care wasn't always considered a luxury like it is today! 🙄
DeleteGreat photos and wonderful memories!
ReplyDeleteI've heard of "nesting" before a woman gives birth, usually meaning that a cleaning spree, but Donda-Lin certainly took it to the next level!
Haha thanks Maebeme! So funny and so true! 😅. Donda hosted several Thanksgivings at her and Bobby's after Drew was born, I do miss those days 😊🤎
DeleteSuch a wonderful share with all of us. Thank you. Lovely family and great stories - all. I too lived the rural life and well water was a precious item. Family of 4 but we never all bathed on the same day, and in those earliest days in NW PA as youngsters my brother and I shared bathwater - you alwasy hoped not to be last with the dirtiest, chilliest water. Unthinkable in these times. We learned some good lessons in those rural, unentitled lifetimes, didn't we? Another shared experience is that after my in-laws died - 2 years apart - their 5 kids went their separate ways. Showed who the glue was. Kim in PA
ReplyDeleteKim I always enjoy hearing from you, thank you--and haha about that bath water, it's good to know another well-waterer :^) I wouldn't want to live with those conditions now, but I do think they helped us become strong in life. And yes you're certainly right about that family glue... I reflect on that often.
DeleteReally enjoyed this post - I've been reflecting a lot on my own family memories lately, and I appreciate your sharing these with us.
ReplyDeleteThank you David, this was very kind of you. I was just thinking about you last night, saw a news story about the Brady home being open to the public soon for tours, and I thought about you being there recently :^)
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