I turned on the tv for a few minutes, then snapped it off and brushed my teeth and got dressed. No shower, I didn't need one. I put on my jacket and decided to take a walk, see where it took me.
I walked up the street in the direction of my favorite hangout, Kuhn's Market. It's amazing to see the new supermarket pretty much complete. They just need to stock it, and pave the new parking lot in front of the store. They promise it will be open by Thanksgiving.
I was going to try and take a couple pics of how it looks inside, but they have all the windows covered. All I know for sure is, it's HUGE.
Heading further up the street towards the senior center, this is the intersection where I got off my evening bus every night when I worked downtown. That's my former apartment building below, where I lived for 23 years. I really enjoyed my former life there.
The entrance to the Senior Center. Aren't these thrilling photos!
There wasn't that many people there. Colleen, Helen, Cussin' Connie & my friend Mary. I got to meet Carl & Kate, the new senior kitchen volunteers. I was informed there was an extra lunch available if I wanted it, Orange Chicken with carrots. Why not.
Walking home, I decided to stop at the store (the old Kuhn's) and get some eggs & Tylenol. In front of the building was a white truck from Rietz Foods. Something pinged in my head, like I should know that name--but nothing came to mind.
I came upstairs, did a google search on Rietz and got a location in Austria. Did another search on Rietz actor, then actress, and yep--found it. Karen Rietz, Robert Reed's daughter. Born in October 1956, she had one acting job in 1970, playing Marcia Brady's classmate in the Slumber Party episode.
Karen & her dad, Robert Reed
However, I was dismayed to see she died last November at age 69. No cause of death was given.
Her obituary read that she spent her life training horses, and loved her son William more than anything. Her mother was listed as family, but no mention of her dad who died in 1992.
I probably shouldn't be writing anything today, not in the greatest of spirits. I'm so tired of battling these long covid symptoms daily, I worry they'll never go away.
I've also been concerned about an online friend who's going through a lot right now with her adult daughter, who's dealing with some urgent health matters. I'm not a parent, but I'm reminded of something my mom said many years ago when I had a bad fall and broke my leg in 2002.
Mom kept calling and asking how I was doing and did she need to "come up there" (she lived pretty far south of Pittsburgh). I told her I was 40 years old and could take care of myself, please stop worrying. She said "Fat chance, you kids will be the death of me when you reach my age! Well, if I'm still here I mean!"
Mom, I'm your age now... wish you were here!







You did a lot! I'm glad you went out for a walk and shared the sights with us. I love seeing other people's environments. That store does look huge! I was a faithful watcher of The Brady Bunch but didn't realize that Robert Reed had a daughter. He was gay, I think? I would like to swear a bit about the Long Covid as well as my situation; it wouldn't really help though. We just have to power through the best we can. I hate it. Sending big hugs, Doug!
ReplyDeleteThank you Margaret, much appreciated. You're a dear friend! And yes, Robert Reed was gay but got married for 4 years in the 1950s to bolster his image, like Rock Hudson. All I know is, he was an awesome tv dad.
DeleteI enjoyed the photos from your walk. Can't wait to hear about the new store when it opens. I'm glad you were able to stop into the senior center and able to stay for that delicious looking lunch. I'm sorry you are so miserable with the *#$* disease. I'm actually more angry that you are stuck with this *#$% disease. You have got me cussing!
ReplyDeleteI watched way too much tv in the 60;s and 70's. I would get emotionally involved in all the stories - oh, to have the storybook lives of the Brady family. I remember the girl at the slumber party. I wonder if I knew at the time she was Robert's daughter. I totally believed what I saw was real life (yes, they had their own siblings and parents but they lived in beautiful homes and everything was perfect, right?). And it does hit me when reality slaps me in the face.
I did not watch tv in the 1990's. I was raising five kids and working full-time and volunteering in several roles. All those programs are "new" to me. I remember staying home sick one day and flipping to Simon and Simon. I watched season one and googled to find up what the brothers were up to these days. I found an article where the younger brother was involved (in real life) in an altercation and was shot. I actually held my breath reading until I learned he had survived. It was like I was hit with a bucket of ice water over my head. A person I had never and will never meet. A person I saw on a tv show. It is funny how somethings just hit us. And the fact I was feverish might have played into it, just like your blasted LC.
Miss Merry, I so love your feedback! Thank you my friend! I am so excited about that new store, it's going to have a café, post office, I don't know what else. As for tv, do you know I never saw an episode of Simon and Simon...I admit I watched a ton, but so many shows I missed. The Brady Bunch slumber party episode... Marcias friends were played by Robert Reed, Florence Henderson and Sherwood Schwartz real life daughters. Crazy! And thank you so much for the LC support... I know your son-in-law beat this, I remind myself daily. Sure am glad we're friends. 💙🙂
DeleteDoug, you always look photogenic even though you're in pain. Sorry that you're suffering, old chap. A walk in the neighborhood is a good idea, with a nice tasty lunch waiting for you. I vaguely remember the slumber party episode of the Brady Bunch; isn't that the one where the boys pull pranks on the girls? Re. Robert Reed - I have a DVD of an old TV series of his called The Defenders. It's about a father and son team of lawyers in which he costarred with E.G. Marshall. It's an excellent series; unfortunately they only released one season on video. BTW, I'm really enjoying Petula's book; I highly recommend it. Good luck in getting your library to order a copy. Take it easy, friend.
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Thanks very much Steve you're very kind. Hey I've been wanting to ask you if you were enjoying that Petula Clark book, I'm glad to hear it. And yes, that was a good Brady episode the slumber party with the pranks and stuff. And I did see Robert Reed's older legal series The Defenders, they aired a few of the episodes several years back on TV Land. I do miss Robert Reed a lot I really like him. Well Steve I hope you're well and I really appreciate your kind words here, your good guy and a good friend. Thank you sir.
DeleteDug, your mom was right in her saying what she did... my oldest son just turned 58 this week and is always saying 'don't worry about me'... not happening. A mother will worry about her children no matter what age... if they're hurting, she's hurting. It's just how it is. But glad you got up and out today. Your new Kuhn's sounds like it will be a great supermarket. And an unexpected free lunch at the Senior Center! That's great. The lunches at our Senior Center aren't free... but they're very reasonable... $2.50 - $5. We don't eat there, but that's because I'm gluten free. We mostly get our steps in there and have coffee in the cafeteria. And although I have watched the Brady Bunch in the past... didn't see it that often... so don't recall the people. And... it's only about a week till your birthday! Have any plans to do something special?? Does your apartment get any Halloween trick or treaters?
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing Rian, my gosh your have a 58 year old son... that's amazing. I lost my mom when I was 43, your son is very fortunate. Anyway, it was good to get out today (and get that free lunch). As for the Brady Bunch, haha you couldn't pay me to watch it again. But it was a great part of my childhood. :^) And you're kind for remembering, but no plans for my birthday... I'm just hoping this latest relapse will have let up some by then. And no, our building doesn't get any trick or treaters, I do miss them!
DeleteBloody long Covid ( insert other phrases as your mood allows ). Delighted to hear you got to go
ReplyDeleteout and catch up with people , but share your frustration that LC has never released its hold on you …..
I am sorry
As a child I wasn’t allowed to watch any US TV shows - my father had served in Korea and had overheard an American soldier make disparaging remarks about Winston Churchill - my father thought the world of him and was
anti American for the remainder of his life ( I still
managed to sneak in a bit of watching , but mostly The Waltons and Little House)
I hope you have some better and LC symptom free days ahead
Siobhan
Thanks for the kind thoughts Siobhan, and sharing some of your own earlier tv memories--loved the story about Winston Churchill and your dad. :^) Well, I dearly loved 'The Waltons' when I was a kid & still do, you had good taste.
DeleteHappy Friday, i miss translate, Andreja!
ReplyDeleteHappy Friday, Andreja 🙂
DeleteI admire what you do. No, I’m in awe of what you do. I get out about as much as you do but, unlike you, I don’t have any physical reason to avoid getting out more.
ReplyDeleteYou walk to the various places in spite of your pain. I just jump in my car and drive there to pick up provender for lunch at the weekend (lamb cutlets, potatoes, mint, salad onions for potato salad; avocado, tomatoes for guacamole). I cheated and got some sushi for lunch (and drank a bottle of chardonnay with them which is why my words are flowing this afternoon).
I also went to the library to exchange books.
Yours are really interesting photos. You might not find them thrilling but for we who have not been to Pittsburgh certainly like them. I imagine that if I took similar photos around Melbourne that I might find a bit ho hum, you could possibly like them too.
I didn’t ever see “The Brady Bunch” (but, of course, I knew about it – it was a bit hard to miss back then).
I remember Robert Reed as playing E.G. Marshall’s son in “The Defenders” where they both played a couple of defence lawyers – one of the earliest programs to do this.
I occasionally think of my mum that way too but if she were here she’d be 118 years old.
Thanks for the kind feedback Peter, I always enjoy reading your foods among other things. I would love to see Melbourne, in person if I could. And sweet about your mom too. 🙂
DeleteHey Doug! I'm just popping in before work to tell you good morning. I'm really sorry you're not feeling well, I've been catching up on your last few posts and I see the LC is acting up again. All that walking you do (while not feeling well) is impressive.
ReplyDeleteI hope you have a better day today!
You're very kind, thanks Jennifer. I hope you have a good day at school today. 🙂
DeleteI am so glad you decided to go out, see people, buy things, interact with your world, and then show it to us, your blogging friends. Good for you!
ReplyDeleteThank you for giving us a peak into your neighborhood. It looks very pleasant, and probably a good place to go for a walk. Maybe a few times a week? Who knows, you might even become a 17-minute-mile-walker. 😄
Thank you dkzody, much appreciated. My LC has a love-hate relationship with the sun, but it was good to get out. I hope you're doing good.
DeleteEscaping jury duty made it a very good week, especially when I learned that the case was a pedophile trial. I couldn't have handled it. Having working for so many years with children and teenagers, I cannot tolerate any abuse of young people. On to a clear calendar next week, which makes me excited for how I will decide to fill in the days.
DeleteI am very glad to hear that. Good for you.
DeleteGood to see/hear about your outing; I look forward to hearing about the end of your LC symptoms any time now.
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Ceci... this really made me smile, thank you 😊
DeleteDoug, thanks for sharing the photos! I enjoy seeing where people live. I didn’t know Robert Reed had a daughter. She passed away far too young as did he. Doug, your parents passed away so young too. I know we were extremely blessed to have my mum up until she was 91. I miss her everyday. Take care!❤️
ReplyDeleteWow, 91. Thank you Robin, your mom lived a long life but I know how much you still miss her, as I do mine. At least we can keep their memories alive. Thank you for being a dear friend. 🧡
DeleteThe picture you took of yourself shows a very determined attitude. That's the way to go!
ReplyDeleteThank you Jackie, I needed that!
DeleteI wish your mom were here for you so much Doug.💕 I’m sure you will never stop missing her and when we are struggling in any way, I think the feeling of loss are more profound. I got you Doug! Your friend Kimba🌻
ReplyDeleteKimba, you are a dear, dear friend and a big thank you for the wonderful visit yesterday! You are the star of my next blog! 🙂💙💙💙
DeleteYou'd probably give about anything to have her "come up there" now.
ReplyDeleteI saw the very funniest ad on the local garage site. A woman posted that if anyone was tossing their moms, she'd be glad to take them off our hands. I responded with, 'Let me talk to my kids and get back to you.' The ad was edited immediately. Of course she meant 'mums'. I am sorry about the pain. I know that it is discouraging. That is no laughing matter.
Haha! Your response to that ad was too funny, Debby. Love it. 😄 Well, I can't have my mom here but had the next best thing this weekend and writing a new blog about it to post first thing in the morning. Thanks Debby, 💙
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