Tuesday, October 20, 2026

It's coming, it's coming.... it's coming (I hope)

Sunday night while brushing my teeth before bed, I began smelling that all too familiar aroma of diesel fuel and a perfumey decay; the "long covid smell".  I knew that meant it was coming, but prayed the bad stuff would come and go by morning.  

It didn't, I woke up with a swollen right eye, aching cheekbones and burning mouth.  I deal with varying amounts of inflammation and soreness pretty much daily, but this was officially a 'flare-up' day.  Nothing you can do but swallow aspirin, hold an ice bag to your face, suck on lemon drops and ride it out.

But I was happily surprised when I went downstairs to get my mail and saw this early birthday card from my dear friends Robin & Chuck in Canada.  I loved it, and I'm afraid to look at the postage it cost for sending it here!  

But I sure am glad they did.  Trump may have his deranged bickerings with Canada, but the rest of us are quite fond of our northern friends & neighbors.  Thank you, Chuck & Robin.

Me turning 65 years old... it's coming.  It beats the alternative, but if I could pick a younger age, I would.  It's sweet when older friends and even some neighbors will say "Oh you're a baby" but c'mon, 65 is up there.  Just ask my gray head and enlarged prostate and Medicare card.  They gave me a 10% Senior Citizens Discount on my Chili's receipt last week without me even asking.

Speaking of Trump and his criminal organization (Putin, the Republican House & Senate, Newsmax, Don Junior's Russian wedding backers, his MAGA crowd who just love the show, etc.) I am not sitting here rubbing my hands in antipation of that blue wave that CNN and MSNOW say is coming.  It would certainly be great, but this country is full of voters who would rather go hungry and without gasoline or proper medical care to ensure we don't get someone in government that isn't Trumpy.  Crazy, but true.

I love Texas, some of my favorite bloggers and people are from there--but I don't see it turning blue anytime soon, do you?

And speaking of politics, I just started reading this biography of Robert F. Kennedy written by Chris Matthews.  A dozen pages in and you can already see the love and admiration Chris had for RFK and laments he never got to be the leader of our country he should've been.  

Heartache... it's coming, because he's right. I can still remember in June '68 when the news interrupted whatever we were watching with his death.  My mom cried while Dad held her, I'd never seen her cry before.  

And now, everytime I see his crazy-ass son on the news or online, I wonder what his dad would've thought.  How'd we go from Bobby to that walking measle.  😕

I shouldn't be writing while in such a cranky mood.  I got a bill today from my "pre-Medicare" health insurance for $1547.00, for 'Anesthesiology Services' rendered June 9.

It says I paid $144.20 to it, but now owe $1547 more.  It's clearly in error, my cost was the $144 I paid 5 months ago.  I called Member Services, who said "Yes your share is $144.20."  I said "Then why am I getting this bill demanding more?"  My insurer said "Do you want to talk to the hospital's billing dept?"  I said "That's YOUR job."  He said "Oh--well, they closed at 5pm anyway."

UPMC...I'm coming for you later today. 😠

Finally, because I'm a boring foodie, I wanted to show you these 3 pieces of chicken I got from Kuhn's on Sunday.  The last time I bought fried chicken up there, 3 chicken filets for $7.60, I lamented their cost.  A few people told me that wasn't a bad price, I insisted it was.

These two big fried chicken thighs and a chicken leg, $2.38 total.  Now that's a fair price!



UPDATE:  After arguing with a Pakistani woman who insisted I pay the new $1547 hospital bill, I called the surgeon's office who said they'd take a look at it.  
Twenty minutes later my insurer called and curtly said my billed amount was adjusted to $71.00.  What a racket!

30 comments:

  1. Your chicken looks delicious and the price was right!
    Please call the hospital while you are still in a bad mood. Medical billing is a mess in this country. Every conversation I have with friends and family of a certain age contains a medical billing issues or cost. And I agree that Bobby is turning in his grave (please don't recommend the book). I remember coming down the stairs to leave for school when I saw the news about Bobby on the tv in the living room. It was like the air had been sucked out of the room.
    I'm sorry. Which is so trite. I can't imagine the emotion when you smell the LC coming on. So frustrating and awful. And idiots who still argue and insist that covid was a hoax. I just can't.

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    1. Thank you Miss Merry and you are never trite. The bad news is this relapse is in full swing, the good news is my insurer agreed the bill was in error and are adjusting it. It's too soon to recommend the Bobby Kennedy book, but I know why you feel the way you do. It's going to be a sad read.

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  2. I was too young to vote when Bobby K was running, but I did like him and I think my generation was traumatized by JFK, RFK, MLK, and the list goes on and on. As for the chicken, don't forget that white meat chicken, as in filets, is always more costly than thighs and wings!

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    1. Thanks Anon and I know white meat is costlier, but that's a big difference in price! And yes, the 1960s had more than its share of losses 😔

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  3. A Racket indeed! The insurance company makes these "mistakes" hoping you will just pay and not create a fuss. I'm sure you'll be examining each statement you get very carefully.

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    1. Jackie that's so rotten but I fear you're right. They were VERY curt with me after saying an adjustment on their end was necessary after all. I couldn't even get out a thank you before they hung up on me.

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  4. Happy Early Birthdat Dug!! And so sorry about the LC relapse... you know, I understand 'that dreaded feeling' that must come on you when an episode is coming... my eyesight goes weird right before an occular migraine... and I know that an episode is eminent (my mind says words that I won't repeat here). But these episodes are not like my earlier full blown migraines I had in my youth... and nothing like what you have to endure. So, I tell myself I'm lucky.
    And I can't see Texas turning Blue... but I'll keep praying for that miracle!!!
    As for your medical bills, you do have to be alert. Medicare is wonderful, but You have to be vigilant. Hospital, doctor's offices, etc. don't always code things properly. Sometimes you have to fight for it.
    Sorry my comment is so long. Your chicken looks delicious! We're just back from a weekend with the family in Broken Bow, Oklahoma. Will post a little about it soon.

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    1. Rian, thanks so much for sharing and please, I enjoy your feedback so much it's never too long for me. A good friend of mine deals with migraines, I sure am sorry you do as well. I'm also sorry Texas is so stubborn! I'm glad to hear you got to go on a road trip, I look forward to hearing more. 🙂

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  5. That birthday card is brilliant . As a child growing up I really don’t remember Halloween being the large event it is today - my devoutly Catholic parents would not have tolerated it
    Hoping for positive election news from the US - but expecting it to fall far short of what I would
    Like . The rise of the right in the US and Europe is too distressing for words

    Not sure if you are a Wallace and Gromit fan (
    if not so watch it’s brilliant and created in Bristol )- but in the words of Wallace “ Happy Birthday Chuck
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    Siobhan

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    1. Thanks for sharing Siobhan, agreed about Halloween here too. Some of these houses in my neighborhood are unreal with their decor! As for the rise here and abroad, so agree. Hoping things come to a head very soon. Can't say I'm a Wallace and Gromit fan, but I've heard of them. Thank you. 🙂

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  6. Hi Doug, ah, you are so welcome! You are so sweet.❤️ I am so sorry you are having such relapses. I was four years old when this Kennedy was killed but Chuck remembers. How frustrating for you regarding your hospital bill! Your supper as always looks delicious. Take care Doug.❤️

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    1. Hi Robin, thanks again for my card and your kindness! I hope you and Chuck enjoyed your trip, and the LC is a bummer but I'm hoping the erroneous medical bill has been resolved. Waiting for the new bill. I'm walking to the store in a minute for more of their fried chicken. 😋

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  7. What a thoughtful gesture! Your birthday is coming soon-BOO! :) That darned LC needs to go away. You've dealt with it far too long. I laughed at RFK Jr. as a measle. He is dangerous and repulsive. I can't stand looking at his face or hearing him talk. Insurance issues are a full time job. I used to deal with my mom's bills and was constantly calling/contacting people. It was EXHAUSTING!!

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    1. Thank you Margaret! So SO agreed about RFK Jr -and- the LC, both need gone. Omigod he's almost as bad as... you know. Well. I had no idea medical bills could be such a battle, my gosh this was awful on their end. I hope you're hanging in there my friend. 🤝

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  8. Dealing with insurance problems is such a headache. That was nice that you got a birthday card. Happy birthday.

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    1. Mary, you got that right! Thank you for the birthday wishes. 🙂

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  9. Hullo, Doug. How nice of Chuck and Robin sending you a birthday/Halloween card with a cake artwork reminiscent of the ones your mom made for you. The RFK book should be interesting reading, but I have too many on the backburner now. If I come across it in a mini free library, I might pick it up. As for the astronomical medical bill, I'm glad you put your foot down on that one; don't let the insurance company weasel their way out of this. What you paid for those 3 pieces of fried chicken would be a bargain here in Canada, even with the exchange rate. Sorry about your LC flare up, my friend. Take care.
    Steve from Toronto

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    1. Hi Steve, thanks for your feedback. I'm glad to hear from you my friend. (Hope you're enjoying that Petula Clark book!) Yes, Chuck and Robin are good folk, I never met a Canadian I didn't like. As for the insurance, yes it was a stressful morning but necessary.. And I got 3 more of that chicken today, I know a good deal when I see one 🐔

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  10. A walking measle?😂😂 We were definitely robbed when his dad was shot! As for the possibility of a blue wave, I would be thrilled, I say THRILLED!! But I just saw some idiotic North Carolinian interviewed on the evening news saying how happy he has been with everything that has happened since 2025. I'm screaming at the screen, "which part? the tariffs? the ICE murders? the physical destruction of the White House? the War he started for fun? the price of groceries & gas?" With people this stupid voting, I have little hope.🙄

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    1. Bobi I saw that same fool too! ABC World News Tonight! Awful! Well, you summed up all the crap well, sure am glad we're on the same side! Your comment here gives me hope, thank you!! 😊💙💙👍

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  11. First off, you need a t-shirt that reads "It is weird being the same age as the old people". :)
    Sorry to hear your LC is flaring up again. Wouldn't it be nice if you could argue as effectiviely with your body as you did with the medical system? Every time I hear a story from the US about Medicare and insurance companies, I am more grateful to be a Canadian. I do have insurance for optometry and dental services but I have a good idea what I will have to pay up front and I've never had the business come back to me asking for more.
    It would be interesting to see how Robert Kennedy would respond to his son's antics. Whatever the result of the mid-terms, I do hope your Congress gets it's shit together.

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    1. Thank you Maebeme, that does sound like a great t-shirt :^) As for the LC, it does suck but I'm convinced it's going to be gone in 2027. As for the whole insurance drama, it DID make me think of people like yourself and a few other Canadians I know. It's ridiculous how it's treated here, another business for profit. And I am keeping my fingers, toes, eyes all crossed for the upcoming mid-terms.

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  12. I like you Douglas yur a nice little fella. But you got to get off that libs train.

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  13. Doug, how are you? Your COVID ailment is really that long to be burden with hope you get well soon. Hey, your life story is almost a MEMOIR you should publish a book of your own. At least you are a great story teller and writer.

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    1. Thank you E.Verna, that's awfully kind of you to say. I worry that I share too much here, so your words mean a lot.

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  14. So glad you got the insurance issue worked out! So frustrating. As I’ve said before, no political comments from me 🤐 I love getting fun and unexpected mail. I hope you get ALOT of birthday mail in the upcoming week Birthday Boy! 🎂

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    1. Is this my friend Kimba? Thank you Kimba! 🙂🧡💛💚💙

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    2. Oops! Yes how did you know?

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    3. Haha because you're a dear, that's how! 🤔 😊

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Thanks so much for your feedback! :^)