Before I say anything else, can I offer a couple small apologies... my first is for another blog post with my big head at the top. I just don't have much of an outside life at the moment.
The second is for the content that follows, which I'm sure is going to be more of the same old / same old. I feel the need to write, but I don't really have anything to write about.
Ever since my long covid relapse last September (why) I've been dealing with "swollen face mornings", then inflammation in the eyes & mouth that subside a bit around sundown.
A couple of ice packs or cold washcloths get me thru the night until bedtime at 11:30.
Last Friday (the same day I posted my movie blog) things went off course and there's been a lot of flare-up in both of my temples. I'm trying to remain optimistic and hoping it's a looney last push of sorts before dying out completely.
Would love to see it gone by summer, keeping my fingers & toes crossed. I'd appreciate it if you could do the same. 😉
Y'know, it just occurred to me that I'm now the same age as my Grandma Morris was in this photo. (Around 64 1/2 years old.)
This was the night of my high school graduation in June 1979. That's my Grandpap Morris in front, Grandma, myself, my beautiful Mom & my very dark Dad in the rear.
Gosh this seems like a hundred years ago.
Here's a strange little story. For years my grandpap carried a little leather coin purse in his front pocket. He passed away 3 years after this photo was taken, in October 1982. (He was 71.)
At the viewing the night before the funeral, I asked Grandma if I might have his coin purse after all was said & done and she said "Of course McDougall, Ace would love for you to have it."
We parted company, and went off to talk to other friends and relatives. A bit later, Grandma came over and took my hand, and pressed something into it. I look down, it's Grandpap's coin purse. I said "Aw, thanks Grandma! I didn't know you had it with you." She just smiled but didn't say anything. She walked back over to Grandpap's open casket to talk to Uncle Kenneth (Grandpap's brother) and it hit me. He always carried it with him.
To this day I wonder if Grandma fished it out of Grandpap's pants pocket when no one was looking. I'm pretty sure she did.
FYI, after I finished school and moved to the city, I carried it every day in my own pants pocket. I'm retired now, and don't have much use for coins, but it still sits on my dresser next to my billfold.
Right now I'm waiting for someone from Maintenance to come to my apartment. This past weekend, I had my kitchen window open and the wind was gusting in, and I had my window blind stretched out as I was trying to clean it when SNAP! The string broke.
I reported it on Steiner's website, and was told to expect someone on Tuesday. They said "You may be charged if a replacement blind is necessary."
Charge me, charge me! This blind has too many layers of grease & grime!
Well, I was just informed my guy is running a couple hours behind schedule and I'm starving, so I went ahead and prepared my Early Bird dinner.
Pasta with dried herbs (basil & parsley) with ground turkey meatballs, steamed broccoli and chopped cocktail tomatoes. Shaved parmesan cheese over everything. It's pretty tasty stuff.
Finally, here's my new window blind--the timing couldn't have been more perfect, I'd just finished washing up my dinner dishes. I thought I'd have to beg for a new blind, but Manley brought a new one with him. I like this one, there's no drawstring--it's very sturdy and you just push it up, pull it down.
That's it for now--thanks for letting me share my day, everyone.





I have everything crossed for you -and what a lovely tribute to your Grandfather
ReplyDeleteSiobhan
Thanks Siobhan, you're very kind. Much appreciated. 🙂
DeleteHoping the warmer weather will bring relief to your symptoms. I admire your healthy diet. Your meals always look appetizing.
ReplyDeleteWell thank you Anon, very nice of you. 🙂
DeleteYou got one of the fancy blinds! Much better- no fiddling around with strings.
ReplyDeleteAnd I truly hope you’ll feel better; you’ve put up with this too long.
Haha thanks Marty, I do love the new blind. Appreciate what else you said here too. 🙂
DeleteHere's hoping the summer brings relief for your LC issues.
ReplyDeleteYummy looking dinner! I'm glad that you're not deterred from taking care of yourself.
Love the new blind! There are old string blinds here in our house that someday I hope to replace. The strings have to be tied up because the cats would try to play with them. Many, many years ago, I had a cat that got his paw wrapped up in a string. Never again!
Thanks Maebeme, appreciate the kind thoughts and cat tales--I wish I could have a cat here, but the company that manages my apt building has a $35.00 monthly cat fee. I just can't see paying that much every month. I really liked that photo of you with yours on your own blog. :^)
DeleteI love your new kitchen blind. Ours needs to be replaced, it's 45 years old--woven with wood slats and fabric. I have no idea how much it would cost to replace it as it was pricey in 1980. You are fortunate the management company took care of you.
ReplyDeleteThanks dkzody! Well, I believe I still have to pay for it--the maintenance man guessed $45.00. But I'm fine with it, it was my fault the older blind broke and you're right, it's nice to have someone come here and install a new one. :^)
DeleteI would pay for that plate of food in a restaurant. Gourmet! I certainly hope this cursed covid is gone by summer--or even earlier. I love that blind. I need new blinds and yours is the latest in them with no string. Perhaps that should be my next project?
ReplyDeleteMargaret, so nice what you said about my dinner--thank you! Oh darn it! I walked to the store this morning and forgot to buy parmesan :^( Thanks for the blind feedback and it could be a pricey project M, but these new ones sure are nice :^)
DeleteFingers, toes, and even eyes crossed, Dug! You definitely need a reprieve... from that horrid LC. Nice story about your Grandpap's coin purse. Little things like that mean a lot. It amazes me how well you eat, Dug. Your dinner looks delicious. I'm not a big eater, but if the meatballs and the pasta were GF, I'd go for that meal. And I think you lucked out with that window blind. It's very attractive! Wishing you a LC free Happy Easter! : )
ReplyDeleteRian, thank you my dear friend. I'm so glad we know each other and I appreciate your kind words and good wishes. I sure hope your eye is mending well. Happy Easter to you and DH as well. :^)
DeleteDoug, I am so sorry your long Covid has come back with a vengeance.❤️ I love the photo of you and your family at your high school graduation. It is wonderful that you still have your grandfather’s coin purse. My dad carried one too, I still have it too. Your dinner looks delicious as always. Glad your blind replacement went off without a hitch. Take care Doug.❤️
ReplyDeleteThis was a very nice read, thank you very much Anon. Much appreciated, and next time I hope you add your name. PS. How cool you have your own dad's coin purse too. ❤️
DeleteGawd Doug , I forgot to include my name!🤭
DeleteHaha--thanks Robin! (I honestly thought it was you, but I didn't want to assume!)
DeleteDoug - Great blind. Write, write whenever you have the drive to do so. We're here welcoming the read. Best wishes for a long COVID recovery before summer. Today I'm listening to/watching Artemis II coverage online by NASA. Love space stuff! Kim in PA
ReplyDeleteKim, thanks so much! I do appreciate the encouragement (more than you know) and ah--I need to check out the Artemis II coverage too, thank you for the heads up my friend!
DeleteI've crossed everything I have in the hope that you will soon be able to get out and enjoy life again. As McDonald's used to say, "You deserve a break today!" May you get it soon!
ReplyDeleteI always enjoy seeing your delicious looking meals and sometimes they inspire me to cook something similar. Like you, I'm a huge broccoli fan!
I'm curious about your grandfather's coin purse, what does it look like? My grandfather carried those soft plastic/rubbery ones with a slit in the middle that when you squeezed it, it would pop open. In fact he had an entire collection of them because many had advertising on the back. It's funny your gram probably filched it out of his pocket, was it empty or was she sending him off with some money?
Bobi--I enjoyed reading this so much, thank you! (And glad to meet another broccoli lover, I do love those little trees) :^) When you were writing about those little shiny, rubbery coin holders I could see a couple of them in my head so well. My own grandpap had a red one (with advertising) and a green one (from American Hardware). What I got was a more formal thing, a half-moon black leather with a zipper on it that I suppose was for dress clothes. It looks like something just bought today, but I swear I've had it 45 years. I honestly don't know if it was even with him in the casket or not.
DeleteIs you photo backwards, or have you started parting your hair on the right?
ReplyDeleteWith the arthritis in several of my fingers they are perpetually crossed. My arthritic toes just swell up, it’s impossible to cross them.
My lunch today is pasta with Bolognese sauce (leftover from earlier in the week), grated parmesan, of course. Also chopped cocktail tomatoes and chopped cucumber with my own dressing (white balsamic, Dijon mustard and extra virgin olive oil).
A pinot noir from the Yarra Valley.
Good blind. I’m totally lacking in blinds; I just have curtains.
Peter I'm very sorry about your fingers, that (and your toes) doesn't sound pleasant. I brush my (very thinning hair) both ways, usually on the right after a haircut. Your lunch sounded positively refreshing. Thanks for sharing Maestro. :-)
DeleteYour dinner looks delicious and you definitely needed a new blind. It looks great!
ReplyDeleteThe photo and change purse is such a sweet story. How wonderful you have a remembrance every day when you see it on the dresser.
This LC is the pits. I hope that you get permanent relief soon. Enough is enough. So unfair to you.
Thank you Miss Merry, your comments always mean a lot to me. I was thinking about you a lot today, I sure hope you're doing okay.
DeleteMy brother-in-law had LC and it lasted 4 years. Your retired so there's no deadline just relax and let nature take its course. Your new blind looks real nice but what is the orange stick hanging on the wall. Is that a silver bar of soap? You hang in there too Doug.
ReplyDeleteThanks John. Gosh I am sorry for your brother-in-law, I hope he's fully recovered. I also hope I don't have this for 4 years. That orange thing is a scrubber for old timey milk bottles I sometimes store my milk in. That silver bar of soap is actually a metal hand thing for getting onion smell off your fingers after chopping onions. It's pretty nifty.
DeleteWe have those push up and down blinds too and they are wonderful - I thought they might be fragile and am very tender with them but so far, years later, no problems!
ReplyDeleteFingers and toes crossed for the departure of your nasty ailment.
Ceci
Thank you Ceci and I very much appreciate the info about the blinds because I've been hesitant to play around with it much. I wanted to stick around for a while. Thanks again Ceci. 👍
DeleteHi Doug,
ReplyDeleteThat was sweet of your Grandma to get Grandpap's coin purse for you.
Your dinner looks delicious. Love the new blinds.
Sorry about your continuing Long Covid. Hope it eventually goes away for good. Take care.
Steve from Toronto
Thank you Steve, you're a good guy. I'm glad to hear from you again.
DeleteYou're the good guy, Doug. You're a kind soul, and it's reflected in your writings. I discovered your blog from a link via another one on old movies and tv shows. I became fascinated because your stories were interesting, thought provoking, entertaining, funny, sad and poignant. Many of your issues I can relate to. You're the same age as me (you're a month older), and like you some medical problems - mine arose right about the beginning of the pandemic. I did not get Covid; I had a stroke and a heart attack, then a bout of shingles, and finally I had a long overdue colonoscopy where the found a not so benign polyp. So, ever since then my life is dominated by things medical, after years of not having set foot in a medical institution, now my appointment book is filled with visits to hospitals and popping pills daily. Reading your posts is something I enjoy. Now I am glad to be a participant rather than be an onlooker. It's also nice of you to reply to everyone's comment. Take it easy, and Happy Easter!
DeleteSteve from Toronto
Steve, thanks so much for this kind but difficult message. Hate to admit it, but I've been having a pretty rough morning (too painful to put my glasses on and mouth is ragged, swollen) and was sitting here feeling sorry for myself and then got your comment here. My God I am so sorry for your heart attack and stroke, shingles on top of that and... my gosh, awful. This certainly helps me keep things in perspective, and I am earnestly praying you make a real and full recovery. Thank you for sharing all this and I hope I hear from you again soon. Happy Easter to you as well. 👍🙂👍
DeleteI just read your comment about your mouth...I had something similar a few years ago, but my whole face swelled and I was having a bit of a problem breathing so off to emergency we went. Long story short...it was determined I had a food allergy that really attacked me, but no one could determine what food had caused it. The idea was a non-organic vegetable I had eaten, but who knew for sure. The ER doc prescribed a Previcid along with a Zyrtec. Sure enough it cleared within 30 minutes, maybe less. The dr also said I should keep those two meds on hand for just such a case, that the first sign of such an allergy would probably be a sore mouth. Now if I can feel something different in my mouth, I take those two pills and by morning, I am just fine.
DeleteWow--I'm sorry you went thru that dkzody, but I appreciate you sharing. I sure wish mine could be that quick to resolve. Mine was looked at before, when I first got long covid. The chronic inflammation in my crown pulls on the muscles in my temples, neck & cheeks causing all the soreness in my mouth. It went away last summer when my LC abated, but I should look into that Zyrtec at least. Thanks again for sharing.
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